Okay, so I haven't posted on here for a while been working two jobs, but bank holiday weekend I finally had a chance to exercise the old sarging muscles.

First night

shit. Tbh.

Went out with a mate who has been single forever and he's starting to be really depressed. So he almost begs me to come up to see him and go out on the town with him (80 miles away)

I agree, because he's a mate.

He gets more and more down as the night goes on (typical quotes)

Him - "can you bring the takeway, I'm chilling on the sofa"
Him - "sorry dude, just really tired at the moment, I've been out every night"
Him - "this place is full of bloody kids"

At the end of the night I'm like

"Dude, WTF! I drove over 80 miles to see you tonight and YOU asked me to come out with you!" (was supposed to meet up with this cute 18 year old)

Am really pissed by this because we leave before his cool Barman mate arrives at the late bar (a Natural, a top bloke and the ultimate wing)

Any advice for sorting out my friends? This bloke is one of my very few single mates and would make an excellent wing, holiday companion etc
But he's just in this damn rut, both me and his Barman mate are trying to get him out of it, but I'm not sure I can be arsed with driving up to see him when we have nights out like that (Sounds harsh I know)

Second night

Local pub. Two approaches. One major burn out.

Me: Have I met you before?
Her: I don't know have you. (Leaves)

The second was my best opener ever

5 set (hb8 hb7 and 3 blokes)
Girls sat on sofa, boys on seats around them almost supplicating to them.

Me (to hb8) -(casually) Shove up! (gestures for her to move along)

Bingo I'm in the middle of the set leading the conversation.

Tell them cool psychology shit, work on engaging all the blockers in the convo. They bounce to go the pub next door (their cousin works there)

What should I do here? Following them seems pretty lame..

Third night.

Okay so this is one of those nights where the Scamp puts himself WAY out of the comfort zone!
For those following me, I've done peacocking and I've done solo sarging.
Tonight - Solo Peacocking

Major biggy, major anxiety

Fuck it.

Tonights outfit (soldier) There's a night at the local trashy nightclub for help the heroes ("Go Commando")

Combats.
Black very tight T shirt
Combat neckerchief
Dog tags
Face paint (opt for black rather than glow in the dark)
Mirrored aviators so dark I can't see in them.
Toy gun

Hit town

Nobody (and I mean NOBODY) is dressed in military wear

Panic
Walk around town a bit
Bite fist
Panic again.

Get jeered at (a lot)

See an actual Soldier outside a pub Walk in.

He shakes me by the hand and gives me a Whisky!

Walk through the bar, big smile

Banter, girls try on aviators. Blokes smile.

Chat to all, blokes or girls.

Was one set in this bar I wish I'd done better at, advice appreciated;

Three set (Hb5, Hb9, hb7)

I'm sat on a couch in a mixed two set and these girls are sat next door

Me - (to Hb5 with fabulous hair) - I just have to tell you, you have fabulous hair
Her- (smiling) thanks, she did it (gestures to hb9) We're hairdressers
Me - Cool

(turn back to two set)

Went back to them with the Rings opener, but the Hb5 just said "Cool" and I couldn't get her friends engaged.

This is my sticking point at the moment.

I approach sets but when I'm in them I just tend to go with the flow and it may lead to a number /kiss close but only if a girl in the set happens to fancy me (usually hb6-7)

How do I get the higher value girls? In the past I've put it down to me not being attractive/tall enough. But now my inner game is stronger I realise there is something I'm not doing in set.

How to Build attraction?

Any help?

Looking back I reckon I should have built on the hairdresser thing rather than coming back with the rings opener

Opened several other sets. Some went well, some not so good.

Hit the club, danced a lot. Danced with girls, 2 Kiss cheek closes, Smiled..

Opened a hot girl with a GREAT arse with the lame

Me- "You look hot"
Her- "I know" (walks away)

Lol, lesson learnt. Can laugh off rejection now though

Grinding with two chicks, an Hb6 I'd talked to earlier was well grinding into me and pulling me in, was good validation But tbh I want the higher level girls


Night wasn't a major success in terms of pick up but was great for my inner game. I was basically the ONLY guy in fancy dress in a small town nightclub (all designer shirts and pointy shoes).

Learns

On a solo sarge in a club you HAVE to dance a lot, you can take breaks but during these you have to smile and move a bit to the music with a good casual alpha lean back.

Progress in the game isn't made in huge leaps, you don't just read the techniques and BANG you're a PUA. It's baby steps and every so often crucial breakthroughs.

I find approaching far easier when peacocked (don't know why)

I need to work on building attraction in the hotter and so more difficult girls

Pleased with

Inner game

Not getting pissed off with "rejection" had at least three rejections over the weekend, normally these would absolutely kill me and I'd analyse and analyse and beat myself up

Now I just laugh them off and it is REALLY improving my approach game..

Feedback welcome

Peace out


Scamps