So this report involves this last weekend where I had f closed two different girls on two different days.
The first girl I had met during the previous week with my roomy. We had brought them back to my place the week before. Anyway, this passed Friday I got her to come over. I had already established with my roomy that I got dibs on this girl, which should have been apparent without me saying because we had made out the weekend before. He proceeds to sit on her lap when she came over and basically cockblock me for 2 hours. Mind you it was now 4 am in the morning. I wasn't worried about him stealing her from me, I was more pissed off that he did not play his role and do what is needed to make the situation for me easier. Eventually, I sat down next to her and f closed later that night.
A comparison with my good buddy who I went out with the night after. I met a girl on the dance floor and she was all over me. HB 7, I would say. I kissed her right away and then invited her back to my place. Outside we me up with her friends and my buddy. I knew for sure it was on and I was going to get laid, the only obstacle in my was her friends. My buddy assured me he would do what he can to keep the other girls occupied, so that the girl and I could have fun. He did not think he was going to get laid at all, but was willing to take one for the team. We went back to her friends place which is in the same complex as where I live, convenient (small college town) and smoked a few bowls and chilled. My friend had made a comment about how he wishes he had musical talent, and I told him you don't need it, you know how to cook like a madman. At that instant the other girl was on his nutts. I left to my place with my girl and ended up going at it for most of the night up until morning (she was a freak, in the good sense). I woke up next morning to a knock on my door and my buddy, who was just as tired as I was and who also got laid. Best of all the other chicks are down as hell to kick it, even if neither of us want to get laid and there is nothing wrong with having some wing women for things such as social approval.
So, what can we learn from this report? Sarging alone is good, but when you got a good friend/wingman it makes it all the better. I think a good wingman should:
- 1. be able to have fun and to make you more appealing to the ladies
2. help you DHV
3. help you isolate
4.be willing to sacrifice to help you out
5. to know when he is cockblocking
If his game isn't on, or he isn't at least willing to help you out, then he is not a good wingman. He can still be a good friend, just not a wingman.
I told my roommate the next day about how much he was cockblocking and I told him straight up that if he can't control that then I can't go out with him because I am not down for that. He denied it
, but i told him boundaries should be established. Like I said I was not fearful that he would take the girl I wanted, I just was pissed off about waiting 2 hours longer to get laid than needed.
My other friend and I are developing into quite a duo. Will report back on future experiences
CHAT