Hey all,

Long time reader first time poster.

I went out with a girl last wednesday who I met online. We talked for about a month and then decided to meet. Things went well, we got drunk, and made out a bit before I put her in a cab.

Before I put her in the cab we had both talked about how we would be in Collingwood for the holidays. I told her I wanted to see her again but that I was busy the whole time I would be in Collingwood, which was actually true. She asked me coyly if I couldn't make one hour to see her which I said I could. I thought everything was going well so far.

After xmas I message her, about three days, and ask her to meet me for coffee for an hour. She says shes going to a party that night but would like to meet me the next day at 4:30 and that she will text me.

Next day comes and it gets to about 4:15 and I haven't heard from her. Here is an actual transcription of our text convo. Keep in mind I am initiating after she hasn't got back to me like she said she would.

Me: Hey. Heading back to my chalet now. Great day. Where should we meet?
Her: I'm dying ... just wokr up
Her: Woke up lol
Her: I am gross like puking gross...I have never been so hungover in my life
Her: When do you leave again today is no good no one should ever have to see me like this
Me: lol heading back tomorrow. Fun times last night?
Her: ya the party here was good minus the over drinking... i drank for 10 hours ug
Her: Work is over rated you should have taken more holidays...are u up on the weekend?
Me: You're absolutely right. I wish I had but it's too late now. Might come up for a buddies new years party.
Me: If I thought I could convince you to meet me for coffee I would. I have crazy lawyer powers but it wouldn't be fair (Starting to lose it)
Me: Let's get together in the city once you're back (Decent recovery)
Her: Ok sounds good!I'm going back to sleep this is awful...
Me: Don't forget about me! (FUCK!!! I think this is where I'm done)
Her: Ug I don't know what to do with myself its never been this bad! How do you cure hangovers?
Me: Coffee and good conversation (Ugh)
Me: See what I'm doing?
Me: Also more beer
Her: Ug I need a caesar
Me: lol I'm getting mixed signals
Me: You'll be fine in a couple hours
Me: Sounds like last night was worth it
Me: Have good week! Let me know how the snow is (Ugh)
Me: * a good week lol (Ugh)

The earliest I can see her now is next monday and with new years coming and this girl obviously liking to party I'm thinking I'm dunzo. I do like her though.

I'm one of those guys who thinks a woman will do anything to see you if she wants too.

Any advice would be welcome on what I did wrong but obviously I have some idea so try to provide concrete suggestions. I'm most interested in what people think I should do now. All I think I can realistically do is wait until monday and call her up. Should I message her during the week? I'm feeling pretty twisted up over a girl I don't really know. Did I get played?

Please advise.