Hi guys, so yesterday me and a mate who's also in PUA went out. We also brought 2 single girls who we are not interrested in that much. One is crazy and hot, very confident etc. Other is a good friend and well... you gotta like her type hehe.
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We both got aproach anxciety but funny enough I didn't feel a lot of trouble with that. I met a fella PUA, we talked he said "2 HB9's at the right of you, now" and I just jumped in. The more I did this, the more I began to see girls as puzzle's to solve with attraction from their side (leading to numbers/kisses/kino/IOI's) as the prize to win.
Peacocking
I had 4 rings (before PUA I wore like 2 usually, now I got one in the shape of a ? wich is awesome).
Necklace
Bracelet and nice watch
Skiglasses. (The same that Mystery often wears... and I already brought it to 2 clubs in London before I even knew about PUA haha.
) - The skiglasses worked well. some girls asked why I was wearing it and I had a funny response, they liked that a lot.
What went wrong?
In almost all sets I talked, and the music was very loud. Very often I had to almost scream "Huh what did you just say?" We went to various places of the venue (trust me it's the only decent club in our city) but you couldn't really isolate and go to a better place. Also because of the loud music I just couldn't even go from the opener to some nice routines or DHV stories.
Then the times when there WAS a more quiet song, I just often got stuck with the opener. Opinion openers don't work very well here. I always did my time constraint, said I had a discussion with my friends and then used something like "are girls with breastimplants sluts?"
Most of the time I got something like "EH, I don't know." or "Eh.. well depends on the girl.." So no obvious yes or no. Most of the time I went like "Woah don't have strong opinion aye?" Which basically was an eject.
In the end I just nr-closed one girl and I'm pretty sure it was a solid one. We had a nice fun conversation and said about 4-5 times she def wanna come to some parties I'm throwing.
Conclusion
- I'm more confident to aproach woman, just do it.
- KINO went way better than during any other sarge.
- Clubbing in my town is shaite (or not my thing) due to loud music. (I'll check other clubs next time).
- I should get some different openers than just opinion openers.
- I have to learn better how to go from an opener to a nice routine.
- I should f-close on the dancefloor.
*sigh* much much to learn, but I do feel I made improvement. The difference between me as beginning PUA and AFC's was very obvious. Lot's of guys in mixed sets where like "wow see her, I would love to talk to her.." "Eh, then do it." "nooo wayy!!" *and there Sinsitive stepped towards them and had a 5 min chat.*
Meh. Any tips/hints are very appreciated since I've got MUCH to learn.
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