Hi guys I am new to this forum.

For my English I will be sorry right from the beginning. I am not really familiar with. I am a Swiss guy (24 years old) and my language is German.

Okay, let’s start:

I was in Praha Czech Republic for 3 days (22, 23, 24.12.2009) to explore Nightlife of course.

Because of yearly Christmas family Event 25.12.2009 I was forced to go home.
There was no airplane on the 25.12.2009 so I decided to take the night train back to Zuerich.

On 23:00 o’clock 24.12.2009 I went by metro to the main train station in Praha (Praha hl.n.).
At the Information desk I bought the ticket for about 100 Euros.
The Train from Praha to Vienna left 00:37 o’clock on platform 5.
It was a dull ambience at the train station and some rain felt down.

Two guys wanted to ask me something in Czech language. As I answered in English they turned off. I was pretty sure they wanted me to ask for money, cigarette or both

I never took a night train before so I was excited in a good way. I love the feeling of doing something new.

The train approached. I went to the last three coaches Nr. 264, 265 and 266.
I decided to boarder the Last Nr. 266.
I was looking for a free cabin to get some sleep.
Soon I recognized that would be impossible and then I saw from the outside a cabin with e blond girl in it.
That was the chance for me.
I could not see here face because the lights were hardly trimmed.

I opened the door and said: “Hi. Do you mind if I sit down?” She answered: “No. It’s free”.

I made myself comfortable putted the luggage into place and looked her once more in the face. She was really cute and extreme shy.
I thought it would be good to know at least her name. So I came up with this:
“Hey. Usually I don’t like it to drive with strangers. What is your Name? “
We introduced each other.
Next I had to ask her what a beautiful girl like she was doing so alone in the train.
Her Name was Christa and she was driving from Berlin to Vienna.
We talked a little about the train and the service, blablabla.
She didn’t know that the train just arrived in Praha.
I tried with my body language to convey comfort and dominance.
I thought if I would take a lot of space she would be relaxed too.
Minutes later we were booth sleeping.
In Breclav we wake up because the train was separated up into two parts.
At this time I went up to search for the toilets.
I asked her if she would please look after my stuff while I was away.
She gentled answered yes.
After my turning back I smelled that she putted some perfume on.
That was a sign for me.
I wanted to know more about this girl.
I found out that she was 23 years old works in Berlin as Hotel keeper and was like me on the way to her family.
Anyway we arrived in Vienna and I wanted at least to number close that girl.
I was too fucking afraid that she would say no that I didn’t ask her for the number.
I had it in my mind all the time:

“Hey, let’s do some number exchange you will be my guide next time I come to Vienna.”

Don’t ask me why I did not make it.
Maybe I was just pissed having a phone number and nothing else or being placed in the friend zone.

The Problem I still have is to get attraction and to make the girl interest in you.
I thought it would too hard to neg her.
But maybe I had to next time.

What do you guys think?
What could I have doing better?
Any recommendations would be welcomed.

cris

I have been on many night trains in Europe (aber spreche kleine Deutsch) and I have had more success on day trains. But to your topic, the following:

1. She puts perfume on in the morning cause she hasn't showered since she got on the train. LOTS of girls do this on night trains (CN Trains). Don't read into this.

2. What was the rapport like between you and her? If it was pretty good, then it would have been easy to number close on her.

3. To make it easy for you and her, I would have MeinVZ.net her if you cannot ask for her phone number. That at least gets you in the door.

4. What are the odds you will ever see her again?

If she notices that you are nervous, then your chances go down very fast. A shy girl likes a guy who takes control of the situation without being afraid (but do so without being a control freak).

Keep trying, you will get better the more girls you try to close. Its a numbers game, even for the best of the PUAs. The more you try, the more you will eventually win.

Bis Dann,

J-Dub

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