ok so a month ago i opened a girl at the bus stop. in the same day i went on a date (lunch) and scooped up her number and got myself a second date the nigth later. we've been on 3 dates and i went in for the kiss one time she shut me down. i ended up getting her to kiss me but when we kissed she used no tongue!?!?! so i used the line what makes you different from most girls what do you got going for yourself other then your looks...she gave me a list of things and i said "whats your relationship history like...good bad are there loose ends i should no about. she said she never hadbeen in one. so im assuming she hasn't even kissed a guy because there was no tongue when i intistagted the mking out. theres very little kino when we talk. i try so many routines but it seems like shes nervous. so tonight i went on a date. we texted all day some sexual talk. and tonight came we sat in the coffee shop and nothing was happening. so i intigated saying..."you talk to much, lets go do some catching up" she responded no im too lzy. but she still wanted her kiss good bye. is she pulling my leg? or just a bust? WTFF!

Dude, do you know if she is a virgin? I mean, she told you she has never been in a relationship.

You need to really rethink your approach is she is a virgin as she could be holding out for that 'special someone' and not a player/PUA.

If you come across even remotely as a player, she may never give into you...Just take your time with her if you really want to pursue her. She may be looking for a long lasting relationship. But then again, I don't know all the details.

Best,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.