| Ok so this is my first FR. A little bit of background. Been paired up for about 6 years and massively out of 'the game' probably been single now about 1 or 2 months and up until last time I went out (2 weeks ago) things have been very quiet.
The location is a fairly sizeable Town in N.London but I don't want to narrow it down too much. PM me for details but suffice to say the ratio is good and the girls are friendly, is got to be my new favorite night out.
*Warning I got gradually more and more drunk so details are sketchy"
Ok so the night started in a fairly quiet posey bar and i wasnt enjoying it too much but there was about 14 of us out for a mates bday so i just kind of stayed in that group. We moved down the road as we usually do and in to a Weatherspoons, now i got 2 number closes in here last time so my confidence was booming! (thats more than in the last 6 years BTW).
So i saw 2 girls stood at a table my target was a HB7 the other maybe a HB6. So very AFC of me I targeted massively (I always do this) and didnt neg the target or talk to her friend too much. As my first opener of the night, massive credit to DONE DEAL I went in with his "when a girl gives you her number is it better to txt/call back. ok, so how about you give me your number and i'll tx/call you?" and she fell straight for it. So i typed her number in to my phone and called it in front of here as i did last week so obviously she would have my number but i stood there until it connected and rung in my ear at which point she said "are you checking I gave you the right number?" in a laughy/jokey way and I looked a right tit! I responded rather AFCish with no i was just checking you had mine (HELP HERE?) and laughed it off then I left rather quickly thinking that was good got my first NC of the night.
Then stood in the pub when my group of guys had dissapeared in dribs/drabs to the club so we didnt have difficulty getting in I was stood with a mate and had been banging on all night about a girl in the corner who looked HOT, atleast a HB8 maybe 9. So i said to my mate i gotta go and chat to this girl and committed but as I did she say down on a table in a booth and moved to the far side. I hesitated but thought ah never mind, nothing to loose as im leaving now. So I sat down on her table and slid my arse round so i was next to her as she sat there looking at me slightly amused/confused and again i went in with the line. She was receptive and gave me her number and i continued to chat about where she was off to and who she was with unfortunately we were not going to the same places. I also told her she had a porn-stars name (think that might have been a neg and she laughed and told me off) then i told her i had better see her in "club x" and she said yeah maybe (but i knew she wasnt) i gave her kiss on the cheek and left.
After this point things got pretty drunk and blurry, it was a fun night though. went outside, saw mates was sliding on some ice for fun and fell over in front of everyone but just laughed it off then headed to the club.
I got 2 other numbers that night, very sketchy memory but that line is golden! I was walking to the door and spotted a target (my targets HB7-10, maybe a HB6 if im drunk enough and its been a bad night) and just went straight in with it again, kissed her on the cheek, told her i'd text tomorrow and left.
In summary i've had serious AA for a while and had mates really trying to push me in to it which just made it worse! and it just dissapeared 2 weeks ago when i spotted a girls trying to pull something out of her hair looking down (later turned out to be a hairclip) and just thought F*** this i've nothing to loose JUST DO IT and walked over and said "what are you doing? you look like a weirdo!" things just rolled nicely she got her phone out for something then put it away again, i told her to get it back out, took it off her, typed in my number and gave it back.
I think i need to work on Kino Escalation and my mid-game as i'm just out of practice. I'd also like to remember of find some good games I can play with them.
I've just remembered a bit of "Gold Dust" now so here is me giving back to the forum...
When one girl got her phone out she said something about her phone and i responded by telling her her phone was ancient and she needed an upgrade and jokingly started to brag about mine and literally of the cuff not even planned i said ACTUALLY ill show you something cool and then got my phone out which has a google star map on it so whereever you point it it will show you the stars in that area of the sky, she was well-impressed then she asked me to find a constellation so i was stood in the pub staring at my phone above my head and couldnt find it! So i said right thats enough (jkoingly) im spinning round looking at the ceiling, its up there somewhere. Maybe i could have said we'll find it another day.
Finally a little help would be great on what to text the following day? I think i made the mistake that I had an exGF round the following day so didnt text any of them. But i have spoken to on of them today on text but it just doesnt feel very natural!
Any help would be great guys!
Best of luck to you all and happy hunting! Remember you just need to commit and ignore that AA even if you need a few drinks first to build confidence!
Happy Hunting!
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Tony T
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