ok dudes!

Got in the game a few months ago. I saw a pickup artist documentary on a dutch television show and it got me interested in the game. My situation: Coming from a 9 year relationship and single for about a year. Still haven`t gotten over her though. But i`m getting there!

My mission is to get some knowhow about the social dynamics in communicating and attracting women. I`m a real social person and can talk to everyone, but in the clubs or in bars i just can`t get any game on. It bugs me for years and now finaly found the game, so i`m up for it.

info about the tactics: I`ve read and seen the books and movies from mystery method, Neil Straus and Mehow. Mehow really has some pratical pointers for me, as for MM en Neil Straus game aren`t really appyable here in Holland (for me!). I tried it but got stuck everytime in the opener. The Mehow method is just so dope and get`s in right away. I`ve put the openers and tactics as reminders in my mobile phone and checked it a few times when i was in the club. Comes in very hand because it just seems like you busy texting some friends.

FROM HERE the 1st sarge experience (big dancing club in Holland):

1st set (2 girl on dancing podium). I saw this cute HB 7,5 with her girlfriend HB5. I opened up with: WHOOO, you guys seem fun! You guys together?I instantly got the bitchshield reaction: We are a couple. I responded that i liked that and RESPECT for it. Wasn`t getting any attention after that response so i opened it up with: There are 2 sort of lesbians: the one who picks the sexy girls and the otherone who is into manly lesbos. Why`s that? She couldn`t answer my question so i got some Higher value then her with that question. I continued with the Fuck, Marry Kill routine and got the HB7.5 mad laughing. The HB 5 was like: WTF so i through her a few negs so she wouldn`t interfer. So i called my friend (wing, but doesn`t know it) and told him to distract the HB5 so i could get to talk to HB7,5. The stupid fuck didn`t understood it and went talking to another outside girl. Anyways:

I maximazed kino by high fiving a few times and touching her by the shoulder and arms. It seems that kino is going quit natural with me but in a comforting way. And waved or something like that and through her glass all over my shirt! I thought damn should i buy her a new one? Did that because it was my fault and i got some IOI`s after that. After the attract i went into the comforting zone and she asked me what i did for a living. She had to guess and i swithed her around so that i`m standing on the wall and she was facing me. It was displaying some higher value and i loved it! The communication was really good and i teased her, and she teased me back. So i thought it was time to relocate the set and said to the 2 follow me, we are going to my friends and have some fun. My stupid wing (doesn`t know it) then took over the set and went to open the HB7.5! He even got her number. I think she was on the buying temperature of my teasing so highjacked that! I was mad, but thought FUCK IT. It was really fun and very learnfull! I explained it to him what i was doing, but i think he`s just too stupid to understand.

2nd set (3 girls) HB7, HB5 and HB5.:"
Opened up with: woohoooo. you guys seem fun! the alpha female was reacting so i began to tease her: Oh you the noisy one of the three. The other 2: one is the bad one and one is the sweet one (kino by slightly hugging her). After that i really opened up really bad because there were constantly people coming by (just walking through). I said: it was like a high way blablabla. Can`t remember what i said next but it blew off!

3rd set HB3 and HB4. The HB4 was already hooked up by a friend of mine. He`s a real AFC for real! Kissed closed, but after that he was walking after her like a puppy and she lost interest in him. Was kind of embarrising for him! anyways: the HB3 was constantly by my side and giving me mad IOI`s. SO i thought just field test some routines to do some experience. Tried the guess the number between 1 and 4. I guessed 3 and it was right. She was giving me IOI`s and i teased and negged her for a while. didn`t proceed because of the looks and just wanted to get hands experience.

4th set (HB7 and HB4):
again opened with the Woohoo. you guys seem fun! I was watching the HB7 a few times in the night and now it was a half an hour before closing time. I teased the hb7 a little by saying she was looking all bored and we should make some fun. Triend the routine Fuck mary and kill and really got her laughing. She was actually very indessisive so i got some higher value of that. Then i said, now you pick three girls for me and again got her mad laughing. It was loads of fun as i thought: THIS SHIT WORKS! i teased her friend because one of the three for the game FMK was her friend so i immidiatly said i want to marry her friend and did some slight huging. The friend didn`t know what was up but she was cool with it.

Conclusion:

This was my first sarge. I haven`t gotten into every detail ofcourse, but i got so much information that i was a succes. No number closses though, but i learned so much this evening, that that was my reward. I can`t wait till next week when i`m going to fieldtest the shit out here. now 4 sets, but i`m going to set myself for at least 10 sets! Ok guys. Hope you enjoyed reading. I`m from Holland and 28 years. If somebody got some tips for me: They are more then welcome!

Thats not too bad i reckon!.. well done!,

It's good that you don't seem to have that crippling AA that a lot of guys have when they go out for the first time..especially their first night out in a long time..

just two points I want to bring up; try using an opener with a bit more substance to it, just yelling out "wooo, you seem fun".. it hasn't got much of an impact, from what I'm reading, it seems like you get a cold respone right after the opener, but atleast you stick it out and DHV and play games (FMK)..

secondly, your Wing; I know you write there that he didn't know that at the time.. but you said he's too stupid as well.. lol, you're defiantly going to need a wing with some brains... brains enough to be able to entertain HB's adds while you work your Game..

a poor Wing can be just as bad as having bad Game yourself..

-Illusionist

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Tnx man. Got any typs on the openers? A opinion opener is just taking to long to open up a set in the club. maybe it`s because i`m opening up from the dancefloor....

My wing has some natural game so he isn`t that stupid . He was just not getting my vibe what i was doing in the set. I explained it to him afterwards and hope next week he will me more helpfull!