So i was out clubbing with some guys. Some of them were my workmates so I tried to keep a low profile. We were 3 guys and 2 girls, quite good ones. One of the guys is one of my wings.

Anyway. We enter the club, I am not as heavily peacocked as I usually am since the club was one of the really high class ones. But we were on the guest list and just walzed right past the line.
As we got in I realized that the dancefloor was empty and that all the people were standing around shyly looking across the room. I found that ridiculus since the music was pumpin´and everyone was ready to go. Nobody had the courage to be the first out on the dancefloor.
So I thought it was time to do something. I just told my friends, lets show those losers how to party and I just walked out on the dancefloor and started some really high energy dance with one of the girls. We were overdoing it maybe but at least we got into the partymood in a split second. I was expressing true alpha male body language and smile etc etc. you know the drill. It took maybe 20 seconds and the dancefloor began to fill. I got high fived by unknown guys for the rest of the night. I have never before generated so much social proof in so little time. Awesome!
Somehow that shows and for the rest of the night I constantly got separated from my group by girls dancing around me. I was on "vacation" and the music was too loud (my ears are still ringing) so I did not game anyone but I go sooooo many approach invitations and IOIs.

And why? Because I had the balls to do what everybody else were too shy to do, get the party started.

So no close, no game nothing, what am I trying to tell you with this story? (Actually this could be a good DHV story if spiced up.) I wanted to tell you that real inner game can more or less replace any outer game that you might wanna learn.

Ezo

It's crazy how something as little as getting a place poppin' gives you so much social proof.

I've had this happen several times at parties and night clubs just for getting the people I'm with to get the dance floor goin.

Atta boy.

It's logical, really.

Nothing's really happening, someone starts to dance, stands out from the crowd and people go "Who's that guy? He seems like a lot of fun!"

Initiative gives you a headstart in most situations. Really.

I know exactly what you're talking about here and people should really try it out if they happen to enter one of those "dead" clubs/events.

This one is golden, bro!

Thanks man, for the love and for the idea that you just gave me.

Initiative, that is one of the characteristics of an alpha male. The guy who takes charge. Think about it, not many of us are natural leaders, most of us are used to be beta males or following decisions that others make for us. Ok, we are all rebels, telling others and ourselves that we go our own way. Yeah, thats true, in theory, we dont agree with others and we have strong opinions that are more well thought through than other people normally have. Thats what we think at least.

What we dont have is the initiative. All the rebelling presupposes that we have something to rebel against. We merely take whats already there and revolt against it. We just take an already existing action and change it to our liking. So even if we are disagreeing we are still bound by the choices others present us with.

The thing here is that a real alpha male makes decisions, he tells people what choices they have and does not care if they follow or not. He does not wait for the map before chosing his path. He just goes.
We need to stop overthinking everything. We plan too much. We are too logical. We do not need to fear the unknown, why would we fear it, we will be as powerful wherever we go. Ok, we get into new situations but we bring our own skills, we can deal with anything life can throw at us. A wrong decision or impulsive action might get us into trouble but when the shit hits the fan we will still be the ones standing.

Just dot hurt others, sarge my girls or accept candy from strangers...

Ezo

Thanks for posting this, it helped me out on my last time in-field, an HB8 started dancing with me for everyone to see. Though I don't have the skills to follow-up yet, it was still a good start for a great evening.

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