FR: The first approach (stepping stone of my PUA journey)



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:40 am 
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I'm new to these forums so I thought I'll start off with my first EVER field report.

So its Saturday night i'm in a 4 set 3 guys 1 girl in downtown heading to a club another female called and said it was cool. Plus no cover charge so we are in....

We are in the club moving around Its crowded its not my first time in the club I been clubbing since I was 16. But after reading a bit from the PUA community and a few drinks I was feeling quiet alright.

We was at the bar talking in a group. after we met up with a few other ladie friends. I then look over to my right shoulder and theres a 8+ standing there no more then 2 feet awat. Having not even noticed her before and after making eye contact with her i knew i would look like a flake if i didnt say something then. So, I didn't hesitate and went for the first thing that came to my mind

Me: Oh I'm sorry in I'm in your space
HB: (smile) no your not
Me: Oh ok well your in mine can you back up some (laughing)
HB: (starts laughing) oh really?!?

in my opinion the opener was on point. for a first time approach I feel that was pretty good.

I then went straight into the "name the oceans" opener it had her intrigued. After she named it i said she missed one and she said no and we playfully argued for a bit. I forgot to mention her friend started interacting when i asked about naming the continents.

So I then went on to the "how do you all know each other test" then the "shampoo line"

I know it must sound super corny to the PUAs i'm using scripted material but it worked.

After that saw my friends (now it was a 7 set 3 girls 4 guys) sitting at a table i then told the girls I'm going to go see my friends. As i was leaving she pulled my arm and told me "no, dont go your funny we like you" that was the best part lol. I laughed and told her i'll be back later.

after that i was on a A high game. went and sarged a few more sets and just worked the club. all by myself...my friends was still sitting at the table and had no interest in "picking up girls" even though one of them is a natural...

I think this is where my mistake came in...

i then walk back to the hb8 and saw her talking to a huge AMOG. I started sayin how huge his muscles was and where i can buy the roids at. he eventually left and i started engaging in conversation again. When she said she was going to school to be a psychologist I told her i dated a psychologist before and it was a bad exerperience i can't talk to you anymore. LOL then she said fine and left so i think i my hook reel release didn't really reel in haha.

later on i saw other guys talking to her and the club was closing soon so i did a AFC move and told her we are going to a after party in U district and her and her friends should come.
after they iffyed it i gave up and left

so thats my FIRST every approach with a girl i know there could have been countless ways i could have done that.

what i want is for you to name some of your opinions of how you could have dealt with that diffrently

thanks for reading


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:06 pm 
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Sounds like a success for your first attempt.

Quick notes

When she grabbed your arm to stay, I would of told them to come with me and meet my friends, put both on your arm, introduce them to your friends, this would of help remove the obstacle and made it easy to isolate with the target.

In your bait, hook, reel, release, I would not have said "bad experience", that might of affected the reel, would of said something more positive or funny, ure a psychologist I love girls with brains or oh my god i love sexy nerds, I cant even talk to you now...


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 2:11 am 
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hmm i like what you said on the hook reel release point jewness.

on the other point with the friends. The thing was, I wasn't going to meet my friends. I just didn't want to sit around and have ackward silence. I wanted to, well put in other words..."cash in while i'm still lucky" then maybe come back when I have her on her toes fully rehearesed and knowing what to do.

I think my drinking played a roll in it also...and not a positive one

but thanks again for the advice


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 5:06 am 
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Yup, what Jewness said. If you review Mystery, the Bait Hook Reel Release cycle is where you say something positive about psychologists and then say "I just can't talk to you now," rather than saying something negative about it.

Nice work though, and your opener was pretty impressive. Is that a canned one or did you ad lib it?

Your wings let you down - are they versed in pickup?


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 7:42 am 
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Yup, what Jewness said. If you review Mystery, the Bait Hook Reel Release cycle is where you say something positive about psychologists and then say "I just can't talk to you now," rather than saying something negative about it.?
Yea your absolutely right...I did review the video and reading and I totally flopped it. I was still amazed i got that far with a HB8
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Nice work though, and your opener was pretty impressive. Is that a canned one or did you ad lib it??


Yes i agree again. The opener was totally natural. Even though i have been studying up on my cocky funny the past week. I think where i was positioned (her facing my right arm no more then 2 feet away) and how i said it to her the first time i made eye contact with her without hesitation. It exilerated atraction. I think lol. plus i was already in a set talking to my friends so it wasn't like i was standing right there looking at the wall.
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Your wings let you down - are they versed in pickup?
one of them is a natural. He can easly have winged for me and "set me up for the lay up" but he was with his girlfriend tonight...Normally that wouldn't stop him. but his girlfriend is a cockblocker and she doesnt like me (long story) and my other friend has no idea or interest in the art of PUA. even though i gave him my "game" book hes not a big reader has to much to do on his plate right now.

Speed-bird, thanks for the comments and suggestion much appreciated -cheers-


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 7:20 pm 
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Yep. Well done, sounds like you had a successful night.

Try and get a really gd and dedicated wingman!

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