I am okay with hitting on girls the whole night and not closing every time, the flirting is fun enough.

Recently, I've been seeing if I can get girls to ask for my number because I'm so interesting/funny/fun or whatever. It's had pretty good results. though you didnt "take charge", youre still alpha by not being any sort of needy.

The only thing I change about my game is to be a little more mysterious or aloof. This obviously has drawbacks with some girls thinking you arent interested in them. others will work for your attention, and its an awesome feeling when the girl asks for your number out of the blue


PS: though this had some success, there were numerous girls that I did not close at all, though definitely could have if I took initiative. For those who care more about getting the number but wanna try this out, i'd recommend to refrain from asking for the number until the last minute, when you realize she isnt gonna ask for yours

I got asked for my number once. That was even before aspiring for this PUA thing, but thinking back to that day, I did everything right.

I was in the army back then and distant friend of mine came to the same base, but had problems with his knee and they sent him home for this. When I met him the next time he was with this amazingly cute blonde. I never thought about her though, and instead approached him. He told me how he missed the army and all and I went at it to talk with him and cheer him up.

The girl soon tried to talk with me and I gave her short replies to get back to my buddy.

At last I gave in, starting to talk with her to be polite. We ended up talking and having the time of our life, but I had in mind "I'll never get a girl like her, so there's no point in showing interest" (a mind-set that has changed drastically).

We touched, poked each others, teased and had fun - acting like we were old buddies. All of a sudden, he took her to the side and said something along the lines of "Please, don't go with him. Don't let him take you away from me".

Then it happened. We hugged. I went home. I called her and we hooked up. My first success story. ;D