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| 104822 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:09 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jul 16, 2008 5:09 pm Posts: 13 | | so recently i decided to stop depending on my looks/body as crutch to get girls cause it never gets me far
so me and my friends get on the college shuttle bus that takes us from our school to the mall cause we all needed to do some shopping. the bus i s pretty crowded so we end up sittin in random open spots and i end up next to a HB7
so im kinda nervous so sit there for a sec and pretend to mess wit my phone, then i say "Hey i gotta asyou a question."
Hb:ok
me: Do you think my jeans are too tight on me? I just ordered them online and its my first time tryiAng slim fits...(im wearing levis 514 slim straight but im into bodybuliding so my thighs are pretty big)
hb:no they look fine
me: aha really?
hb:yeah yeah they look normal
me:yea i just needed a female's opinion u kno...ws that a weird question?
hb: haha no no no
then we shoot the shit for a while talkin about why she was at my college and where we're headed (different stops) turns out shes a year older than me i gave her some shit about not knowing what a rodeo was (we got on the subject cuz we were talkin about where were from and im from texas). then she got off at her stop
so im glad i talked to her and all i kinda tried to use pua techniques (well, not relly)
just figure any pointers would be cool thanks
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| Niceboy | PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:42 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Sep 25, 2009 7:17 pm Posts: 34 | | Hey man
Good to see that you used an opinion oppener. Just remember that asking for her opinion on your image could be perceived as needy. It would be better to avoid yourself/clothes as your asking for qualification. And 3 second rule maaann!! Great job, keep going.
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| 104822 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:18 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jul 16, 2008 5:09 pm Posts: 13 |
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| Tom_"Maybe" | PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:47 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:45 pm Posts: 136 Website: http://www.myspace.com/rotr_party Location: Columbus, Ohio | | Close bro, CLOSE!
lol
Nice job with the material you used. I know from experience that sometimes you get so caught up in the moment, and the fun of it all, that you forget to close. It's easy to forget...that's why I usually picture the end of every conversation, then work backwards during the interaction, and any speed bump that may happen can be handled differently according to how I can feel the conversation is going.
It's totally an advanced way of thinking, but not something so advanced that a new guy couldn't pick up and work with.
I recommend you try thinking backwards, and usually that causes the woman's emotions to naturally flow in the direction you've pre-planned for them to go. Its a way of thinking ahead of the conversation, and very effective. _________________ You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.
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| Punchl!ne | PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:49 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Tue Nov 03, 2009 3:28 pm Posts: 139 | | Great job, bro. Approaching is always a start and a huge step for most people... in the beginning, at least.
The only direct pointer I can think of was how you phrased the question. Always try to ask in a way so they have to give you a real answer instead of a simple "yes" or "no" question. It worked out fine though.
Could've continued with a joke, like "Sure? Because I was thinking my ass looks a bit big in them..." or something like that.
But then again, there are different ways to play. Keep it up!
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| asherb | PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 7:24 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 09, 2009 6:51 pm Posts: 18 Location: London | | Yh, good job.. I always like the neg, they never let you down so try a bit of that next time. _________________ Ash
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