So this is how it went down- or should I say GOES down..

I will try to use one occasion as an example here but this happens almost every time that I get a chick's number. I seem to have good enough skills to get a girl's interest and number but these bitches never call me back after I try to contact them!! I don't go for a kiss close sometimes but I use all of the PUA skills that you guys tell me to. Please give me advice on my routine or why girls wont answer me back after I try speaking to them.

Background info:
-Good looking
-in shape (around 165)
-white
-a little bit anxious while speaking but able to mask it in conversation so I can make an emotional connection
-well dressed when I go out.
-In college
-Picks up chicks mostly at parties

Routine:
1. Opener: usually asking about the party environment (ex. is it too hot in here?)
2. Story: I usually say "I need a girls opinion on a problem. I've been giving guitar lessons to some guy I'm friends with but his ex girlfriend is my close friend and getting mad at me for giving him lessons. What should I do?"
3. Observe their energy (ex. speaking speed, tone and whatnot) to imitate it and get on the same emotional level.
4. Followup Conversation: I usually ask if they like guitar and tell them I played with a famous guitarist. I also ask about their school, etc. to tell them that I won a pretty huge award (no bullshit).
5. I start building my physical connection by touching their hips or arms lightly them after we talk about something funny or interesting.
6. After about 10 minutes I say "we should definitely talk more" and I get their number.
7. Wait about 3 days then text them saying something like "Whats up? Are you going to Bliss this weekend?" (because we spoke about a club).
8. NO ANSWER!


Even when I call them I just get no response. It is really discouraging. Please post any criticism or any more questions. I thought maybe I am good with my game but college parties might just have good girls for my game. Either way I just don't know. Please help.


-Thanks!

The longer you spend in comfort with them the less chance of flaking so don't feel you need to rush things, it's one thing getting them to give their number it's a much bigger then getting them to pick up when you call next.

Next up you're not time bridging aka finding a mutual shared enjoyment of an activity/interest etc. and then giving it the "omg we've so gotta do XX together" so there's a reason for a day 2. This way in her mind and when she tells her mates it's not "i'm going on a date with some guy" its more a "we're doing <x activity together>". It's less pressured for both parties as the activity can help fill in blank spots for conversation.

Also imo 3 days is a long time to wait, personally i'd text them later on in the evening depending on the interaction and then call within a couple days to set up a day2.


Hope this helps

Hmm I like that idea. I will definitely try to find more common interests between me and a girl that I meet.

There was no qualification.

Qualification will gage the girls attraction level. You are going through the motions, but my guess you have no real idea where you are in the interaction, whether you should be in A1 or A2 or A3. Seems like you are in A1 then you go to number close. A2 is her being attracted to you. If you qualified her you would know if you are there or A3, and who knows if your past A1 bc I am not sure if the set is even hooked from you example.