| Hey,
So here's my field report on my first winging experience ever on friday 30 november, it was also one of my first nights out without drinking alcohol.
So my goal was to approach and not caring what the girls or everyone else would think of me.
I quit drinking not a long time ago, I realised I would never make any progress in Sarging (and even in life) if I continued drinking, I drinked a lot some nights and while sometimes it created some attraction I ended up fucking everything up. I'm glad I quit drinking, and I suggest everyone who's in the same situation that I was to do the same.
I met up with Mr.Shade in the Netherlands Breda, first impression: he's a friendly tall guy, no idea how the evening's will go and I actually didn't really think about it. I got big AA so I was like, I better not think about it and we just immediately go to a bar.
So we go in the first bar and he immediately draws attention with his behaviour, body language etc..
I immediately felt uneasy because of the attention he was projecting on us, didn't have the “I don't give a fuck” attitude.
At that moment he makes gestures to make me approach, and I was like “no way” I just couldn't.
So we go to several bars and I just can't approach, he does some approaches and really impresses me with with the way how he managed to approach instantly. Approaching random girls in the bars, on the streets, just pure confident behaviour that I'm not used to see.
So, I don't have anything impressive to say about my approaches. Only one girl that was average to good looking responded positively, smiling, complimenting but after asking some random questions I just didn't really know what to say or do so I just left. One thing I noticed was that I didn't think about that approach, it just happened in the moment.
Most approaches were done with no real expectations because I really didn't felt confident enough and had big AA and at the end, I just let myself be blown off several times on purpose. Wanted to become indifferent about what they would think of me.
So, this was the first time approaching without any alcohol and I was very impressed by Mr. Shade's skills, seeing that in real life is really impressive. He cockblocked some guy at a moment, and had some nice interactions with hot girls.
My goals are being able to walk up to any random girl at any place and not giving a fuck about what others think of you, Mr Shade did me a nice demonstration of that, he has no problem being the center of attention.
His goal of the evening was to grab the number of a really good looking girl he already knew a bit and to kiss her, which he both did.
It was a really nice experience
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