Thats a quality question. You are really trying to break the code of the pick up for yourself. But as I can see from your style of writting you got some inner work to do. Im an inner guy, so I say that to everybody.
What I think went down is, you approached a girl but you unconciously were needy and you wanted to get her to want you.
Ask yourself.. are you trying to get the love and approaval from women. If yes, admit that in yourself, and than work on letting it go.
When you do, and than go talk to girls, you will find that girls want to be arround you because youre a cool guy and girls dig cool guys.
Probably the answer to everything is learn to become cool.
O and as for the interaction above, you didnt create enough attraction with that girl. I dont think you communicated sexually. I remember when I use to do that. I would talk to girls, made them laugh, but things didnt seem to work. What I found out was, that I didnt had the sexual confidence in it, so the girls didnt feel attraction for me.
And the way you develop sexual confidence is by knowing that you can blow a womans mind in bed. Find out how to do that, and youre "problems" will go away.
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