| Ok so tonight I was out with some friends, a HB9 (guy1's gf), Guy1, guy2, HB6,5 (yeah 6,5.)
I spent a lot of the night at the same bar trying to build up some social status, handshaking the people i know at the bar and just generally being funny and social with the HB's that were with me. (twirling them around n shit).
Then I see a HB7 going into the bar that eye-fucked me 2 weeks ago. I went up to her and asked if she remembered me and where she went that night because she missed out on some things. I kino a lot and she responds back with a lot of heavy kino (grabbing me, holding on to me while talking). I think to myself: go for the kiss as I ask her "ok well, are you adventurous? and while I ask this her friend comes up to us and starts hugging her and saying "omg its been so long since i've seen you" etc and I could just fucking tell she was trying to 'save' her friend. I try to befriend her friend and ask her to introduce me to her. I talk to the cockblocking friend for 5 mins and try to refocus on the target. I get pulled back by the cockblocker all the time as I try to talk to my target and after a few minutes the target walks away. From here I figured I'd save myself and just tell the cockblock it was nice meeting her and went back to my friends because i lost my target... I asked the HB9 to spot me a girl that would be 'right' for me, after a while she pointed one out and i said: ok i will go in 3, 2, 1...
It was a 2 set dancing with eachother (1 HB7 and 1 HB 8 *target*) and I opened to the HB8 saying: "This is kind of embarassing, I almost wore the same outfit as you "(she was wearing real girly stuff). She just looked at me like "okay..." and I tried to pull in her friend, the HB7. I talked to her and tried the 'best friends test' but they didnt even look at eachother before answering, leaving me like "oh ok...mmhmm..fuck" I asked them what they did and the HB8 (target) said "not much" so i said : must be a boring life then . The HB8 responded by saying "well, too bad" and I was just speechless by then...I gave both of the girls a hand saying it was nice meeting them and went back to my friends.
What did I do wrong here...I think I should have negged the HB8, but I didn't, I sort of felt from the start that they were too busy with eachother to talk to any guys.
fuck, so full of theory but not able to pull it off in the field sometimes it seems
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