Hey guys,

So I'm trying my hands on this girl now. I don't really know where to start at this moment, because I"m confused on how to describe the situation.

I'll start with the background of the girl.

I play the "high school game", I'm 16 and she's 14, and she lost her virginity when she was around 12-13 (losing her virginity in early age is very embarassing in my country, especially in the Chinese social circles like mine, it'll take hours to explain, but I'm sure you guys could get the picture). Since then she started to refuse to believe any boys, and here's the problem.

Even if I have genuine intention and interest on her, she can't respond positively to it. Her beliefs on "all men are jerks" is already so strong that it's almost impossible for her to believe any boys. So it makes the approach harder, but fortunately I managed to put a little framing on her that I'm not a jerk that'll use woman just for sexual satisfaction purpose (warn me if I ever be one . I believe this generates some if not massive amount of comfort and attraction inside.

Although I have managed to built these, she's still hard to talk in person. What causes this?
Is this just because she thinks that she has to remain congruent with the frame "boys are jerks"?
What should I do in this situation?

I think gaming this kind of girl have some advantages and disadvantages. Advantages are she's much more sexual than any girls that I've ever met before (she touched me more in the first 5 minutes, and give me a sexual nickname in the next 10 mins). Disadvantages are, she's quite experienced and know more shit tests than usual girl.

Her favorite is she says stay away from me, and push me away playfully like I'm a sexual predator. It works before but still I can't find the best way to deal with it.

My questions:
What should I do? Build millions of comforts? And how to pass the sexual predator test??

Thanks guys,

Best pal,
Steven

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tell her that you genuinely care for you..tell her that you will do what ever it takes to make her understand that not all men are jerks..even though most of them are and a very few that arent..you have to sit her down invite her to dinner with your family and tell her the honest truth about how you feel for her..