Tonight I went to the student bar alone, it's the kind of place where I'm guaranteed to run into a bunch of people I know so I didn't mind leaving on my own. I wasn't in such a good mood but some music, whistling and strutting helped get me into a good state while I walked. As I got to the bar (a place called Reggie's). I didn't go to sarge (I never actively sarge), just to dance and hang out. I saw a bunch of friends that I hadn't seen all summer and danced and hung out with them for a few hours switching between groups. I was in a great mood at this point from the music and dancing.
As I was about to move around the dance floor to find more friends or go outside for some air I ran into a girl I know through a friend and an ex. I tap her on the wrong shoulder and she and my ex (who had her back to me) both turn and we dance and talk a bit. I start dancing towards the exit because I'm hot when I catch a sexy brunette checking me out and dancing, surrounded by guys. I look her in the eyes and start dancing towards her, bump into someone, smile and keep advancing. Once I'm in front of her we sync up really well and are dancing in harmony to every song that comes up. She dances well and can keep up with me most of the time. After a few songs we grind on and off and heat stuff up by getting close.
This is when I started teasing her physically (which I think is a great dancefloor skill), I would move my face close to hers and then back away, breathe close to her ears, and generally make her think I was going to kiss her. I kept this up for a bit (maybe three songs) before I pecked her after that we would peck or make out for short bursts (I always pulled back first) not too long because the DJ was playing good music and I actually wanted to dance with this girl at the moment.
As we kept dancing communicated through body language to react to the things around us (people acting crazy), the music and each other. After a long while of dancing and on and off kissing. This guy came up and told her something (I know he wasn't a boyfriend because he probably saw me kissing her a few times, and he'd come by earlier to tell her stuff while we danced). She picked her bag up and looked at me, I asked her if she wanted me to come home with her, but should couldn't hear me on the dancefloor so we walked to the door, there she asked me what I said (turns out she was French, good thing I could speak that too), I asked her again and she told me that she was going home with her cousin
, and if I ever took dance, I told her that I didn't and to have a good night. I left shortly afterwards, covered in sweat, ended up taking off my tanktop because the wind was making me cold on the walk back.
Stuff I learned:
When it's purely physical, tease tease tease, the kiss will be better and more appreciated by both parties.
Escalate step by step, I didn't grind right away when I approached her, first I danced in front of her keeping sensual eye contact and some smiles, then grinded on and off and then kiss closed.
Cousins are meh, I feel that I would of had a full close if she was returning home on her own (I think she was staying with the guy, because I never saw her at that bar before).
Tips, tricks, advice whatever let me know.
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