| Ok, about a week ago I went out with this HB9 whom I met at the party and got on my msn. We walked like two hours and so. She was laughting all the time which is good but she did not kino'ed me back when I kino'ed her...well, she didn't resist my kino but she never kino'ed me back.
I have been wondering about the not kino'ing a long time now and asked help from forums. Their suggestion is that I haven't created enaught attraction. Ok, so I talked with her and she was laughting all the time..isn't laughter on key element of beeing attracted? Apparently not that much. Also, I did the compliance test and she failed twice. So...bad news yeah.
I started out by NEG'ing and teasing her...which lasted through-out the conversation. I kino'ed her a lot, made the cube routine, built confort...but still, I think she wasn't attracted. At msn, she has started convo about 2 times over the last week now...and both times were about the school and it didn't seem that she was too keen about making a proper convo.
So what is the element I am missing...is it too much NEG'ing (probably), not that much attraction building (no DHV storys) AND not introducing the sexual inuendo element. I think the last one is very important bc..without seducing...there can be no k-close.
Signs she was not attracted to me: She did NOT kino me back, she did NOT ask that many questions from me, she does NOT want to take contact, I did NOT introduce sexual inuendo elements, she did NOT start telling me how cool she is.
Things that were good: I DID make her laugh (although, it was jokes about nothing), my body language, my DHV story how I like psychology (although, it was in comfort phase), I kept the convo flowing and fun.
Do I still have a shot with her? I don't want to brake my head with that... I'd say fck her...maybe try someday again, maybe not.
The second night out was with a fried of mine and he's friend and his GF and his cousin (target, HB8).
Well, the second I stepped in the friend convo...I saw his GF and HB8. BOTH had attraction towards me. Long story short...I NEG'ed too much my target and it blew me out. Otherwise, I NEG'ed the friend's GF a couple of times and I didn't pay that much attention to her bc I didn't plan to game her. And the result: the target didn't like me anymore and the GF was eye contacting me all the time and laughting on my jokes.
Lesson to be learned: NEG only couple of times, ignore the TARGET, at the same time, build the attraction, get IOI's, make her qualify, go into C phase, then use cube and deep connection questions and use sexual inuendo elements when she has completed A3 (qualification). Then, bodyrock to increace the attraction. Basically, USE THE FCKING MM.
I really have to learn how to decrease the NEG's in my convo and how to increace the attraction. If the girl is not chasing me then the pick-up has failed.
Be cool, one day I SHALL succeed!
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