My friend recommended a party to go to, I said ok but instead of going with my regular group of friends and their friends (about 8 guys total) i decided to just go there later with one friend.

we get to the party about 30 minutes later then the rest of the guys and decide that the 2 of us should stay separated from the rest to enter faster. I works and we enter the club like 5 minutes after waiting in line. Knowing some of my friends waited much longer and some actually gave up gave me a needed boost to my ego. me and my friend go inside and immediately i begin opening simple 2sets, but they end up nowhere so i continue sarging, i spot another 2 set and open a girl by "nice eyes are these contacts?" we chat for a bit and continue dancing but her bitch friends who i stupidly ignored got annoyed and dragged her and they both left. 2 seconds later i spotted a 4set dancing, with one girl dancing on a platform a little bit higher than the rest, i come to her and say "you're dancing on this platform because you're insecure of your height next to your friend, right?" it then continued to a chat about heights and mine which is about 1.85 and i don't remember much else of the earlier chat but i end up staying there for the rest of the party dancing with the 4set and actually creating a jealousy plot-line within it (not my intention, i really didn't know which one is better so i kino'ed them both and gave both equal attention, until eventually i picked one..). as we were dancing i actually greeted people passing by and people standing there and i brought more people in and the girl asks what is it with you? and i'm like "i dunno i seem to attract everyone around me" while smiling and using body language to make it seem like i mean i attract the whole world. I felt like that corner of the club was all under my control.

the 2set from earlier arrived also and joined briefly and the girl even came to tell me she's leaving. i just told her goodbye and went on with the party.

I took the girl from the 4set around the club and as i pushed a group of guys to make way i felt someone pushing me back, i turned around to see a guy looking at me pissed. I look at him and ask him why he pushed me for, he said because i pushed his friend, and very calmly i tell him i pushed his friend to make way and he just pushed me for no reason and ask him again why was that all about, through the entire talk he lowers his eyes speaking to me, eventually he asks for forgiveness. through this whole ordeal the girl is right beside me, but i dunno if she understood what was said because we spoke english because he's a tourist.

i pushed for kiss close but ASD kicked in, i playfully kinoed her ass and she smiled at me with this cute knock it off smile heh i love it

all in all it was a great night and i didn't have ONE drink.
though i retrospective i should have merged forwards the set and game some hb10s instead of sticking with them all night.. i guess i still have that "fear" when it comes to hb9-10 when it comes to a new place.

hi,

i know that "fear" and i would like to hear your perspective on how to overcome it i have tactics of my own which i am beginning to use

cheers boss!

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