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| Chief | PostPosted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 4:25 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:19 am Posts: 5903 Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | Last night I met up with the Korea Lair's glorious leader, BlueMystery, for the first time in over a year. Last time we met, we pulled this 2-set back to his place and had a blast. This time around we were taking it easy at a bar.
I arrived at the bar first with my aunt (she's cool) and ordered some awesomely overpriced imported liquor from the west: a shot of jack. The people in the bar were all friendly, but overall pretty neutral to us. I started talking to this fellow American at the bar; he was a regular there. I notced that, after I started talking to him, I got a little more social proof. The bartenders close by started talking to me and my aunt more.
And then, in walked in the BlueM. Since he is cooler than cool shit, he just started talking about interesting things in an enthusiastic manner with everyone around us. That gave ME a lot of social proof because I'm the one that brought him there. It was interesting to note that guys can give other guys social proof just as easily as any pivot or wingwoman, just as long as the dude is passionate and consistently gives value rather than sucking value like an AFC leech.
From the newfound social proof I had from the events of the night I was able to strike up a more enthusiastic conversation with the bartender and I got a solid number close from her. Unfortunately she texts me in Korean and I can't fucking read Korean. lol
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