Hi Guys,

I am basically an AFC. Ive been in the game for maybe a few months. Apologies if this post is disorganized. So my friend and I decided to go to a strip club in the burbs. My friend was speaking with another stripper as I was sitting there looking bored. Then this one HBStripper9 comes up to me and does her stripper routine. We spoke maybe for 15-20 minutes just about random stuff like clubs in nyc/relationships etc. She told me she broke up with her ex cuz he was jealous and used to check her phone to see if she was giving out her number to clients. She told me she never did and would never give her # to clients. I told her that I respected that. Then she asked me if I wanted a lap dance. I pretended to be a bit hesitant. I gave her crap about how the previous guy she gave a lap dance to didnt seem too happy. So I started bargaining with her. Like Buy one get one free or If i didnt like her first lap dance I wont pay and made her pinky swear. While she was giving me a dance I told her that it didnt really do anything for me and that she had to try harder. I said lap dances really don't do anything for me and that I was just there to hang out with my friend but I was happy to help pay for her schooling (she is in fashion school). She laughed at that one. The whole time I was teasing her about being a bad girl. I told her that its too bad she didnt give out her #, cuz she could have been a great wing girl. She asked me what that was so I explained. She told me that she would be a good wing girl. She kept asking if I wanted another dance. I was like sure. I teased her again and told her lap dances didnt do anything for me and that she had to kick it up a notch. She stopped and looked at me. She asked me what I meant by that and asked in a sarcastic way if I wanted a hand job or something? I was also confused here but I told her no, I told her that she intrigued me and that I wanted to be her friend. Then I asked if she wanted to be my friend. She was like sure and was about to give me her number. I asked if she had facebook. She gave me her real name instead. I felt that was better cuz, numbers usually flake out for me. She typed her name in my phone and made sure I had it. She said anytime that I want to hang out let her know and that she would introduce me to promoters and djs etc. I told her that I would be traveling for 3-4 weeks and that we should hang out when i get back. So I facebooked requested her with the message" hey girl. it was nice meeting you. I really enjoyed our convo Smile." She accepted the request without responding to message. BTW she looks like a classy girl in all her fb photos. I can't believe its her job to grind on men. Much more attractive than in the club. Anyway, what do you guys suggest i do? Is this now Facebook game? Thanks.

It sounds a lot like she is a dancer and you are her client. Nothing is wrong with that - lots of guys go to strip clubs.

You can try to game her on facebook if you're into her. You have nothing to lose by doing that, right? But, you're gaming her into the LJNF zone - you said you wanted to be friends with her.

She also told you she was going away to dance for three to four weeks - she sounds like she's a tease, you sound like you are a nice guy - she knows exactly what she is doing, and you're not sure of the situation. Danger Will Rogers - you're on the tracks and the locomotive is bearing down on you.

Your time may be better spent gaming girls who are not strippers.

Hey thanks for the reply. I thought i was bringing her into the LJBF zone. I told her that I was going to be away for 3-4 weeks cuz im starting up a biz. I do have nothing to lose but I want to game her even tho she is a stripper. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.