So I guess it's safe to say that my first attempt at sarging was a complete failure. I looked presentable, had my operners for different situations down pat (so i thought) had the right attitude, was in the zone however, everytime I approached a girl i froze and delivered some half ass weak stuff. I approached a total of 5 girls in the timeframe of an hour. I formulated an opener on the spot as I approached them..."excuse me I think I looped around this entire mall around 5 times already, i'm looking for some artistic stuff like drawing...you see tonite is my friends bday party and she is into that stuff, I have no knowledge when it comes to art..would you happen to know where I can find stuff like that? I got a whole bunch of "no i'm sorry I don't" "no clue good luck" "no"

I had no follow up to that "i would just walk away saying "oh ok thanks" and that'll be it. I'm having a very hard time with approaching the girl all together. I mean I had girls giving me "looks" i took them as IOI, there were two girls that I think all they had to do was hold up a sign that said "hey come talk to me" yet I kept walking and felt like a complete ass. I might have to practice more openers and maybe rehearse them better so that I won't freeze in the process. I also thought wing man would help me. It almost felt like the entire mall knew what I was there for and were looking at me with a magnified glass.

what's do you guys think?

dude i remember that feeling soo much the first few sarges i did in rules of the game missions

i think what its down to was the fact that it was your first approaches, especialy day game can be hard to open as people are often in a rush or have somewer to go or someone to meet. so in order to open and reach the hook point you need to demnstrate alot of value so thel stop what ther doing and be interested in the convosation.

relax this was your first time opening and even tho you may have froze you still opened, try a few try'd and tested openers to get yourself comfotable, personal fav of mine is the jealous girlfriend opener, not only it is interesting as is almost like gossip but you can link it to other openers if the set doesnt hook. also a good tip for me was to work on the transition, as the transition from an opener is just as, if not equaly important.

but just relax, the feeling your getting is due to the fact that you know why you are there, just relax and eventualy you will calibirate more and find it easy
good job on getting yourself out there m8

It happens man
it happens a lot all the time
I can understand how exactly you are feeling at this point but you gotta keep going and keep trying
It happens to all of us
I'm also kinda dealing with the opening part of the game
Good luck for your game
just keep trying and don't give it up

my aa is crazy you think once you start talking to girls it goes away but i learn aa is just a part of being a human being it never goes.With AA every day is like you never talked to a girl before i say you did ok some people dont even talk to 5 girls a day and i mean not a word just pass all of them wish they could have said anything(like me at times).my advice to you is use the opener about a girl being mad because the boyfriend still has his ex pics,gifts and cards women will give more imput on this.i used this on a girl today she told me how she was a jealous person so i was like what about the trust? she was like how people cheat,then i used i guess what could be another opener then who cheats more men or women?she was like does not matter cuz women are just better.i asked her sign(whatever sign who cares)act like you know the sign cuz i said makes sense your sign has a jealous nature with trust issues and made up bullshit behind that to back it up. another thing i feel pick your best opener in any situation and master that opener so you can go into long convo and get use to the answers u get back it better than using all kinds of openers and you dont know how to carry and convo with them or what to expect back.oh and use opinion openers so you dont get 1 word answers and make comments on what she says it better to disagree with your opinion cuz it makes the convo longer(works for me) also you can get more emotion out of her