| So im new to the community, half way through reading The Game and finding it pretty hilarious and interesting.
Bit about my background. Usual teenage angst growing up, didnt really get any girls throughout school but came into my own when i left and grew a pair of balls - since then ive not had too much of a problem with women, just come out of a 3 year relationship (broke up 2 months ago) and ive so far gone through a bit of a drought. My problem is that although i can talk to women, i rely on them to approach me first and that isnt something that happens every night.
So tonight i went out with the intention of just chatting to every girl i came across, didnt really care how hot they were, didnt care if i got anywhere - just wanted to get over the anxiety of it all.
Anyways, it was my buddies birthday and so everyone was out in force and drinking loads. I got few bottles of liquid courage in me first and then it was game on. Talked to quite a few women in the first bar, just with any old openers from "hey how you doing" or one girl was looking for some loose change in her purse and was just throwing coppers(1p's, 2p's (im english)) everywhere and i said "you hunting for treasure in there or what? *smile* and she giggled away and we talked for a little but i think she was pretty drunk so i wasnt getting too much out of her. Started talking to a HB9.
Me: What you drinking?
HB9: Archers and lemonade
Me: Archers and lemonade? Thats cool, my grandma drinks that as well *wink*
HB9: *laughs* and whats that supposed to mean
Me: Oh nothing really, i just kinda figured it was an old person drink (i actually quite like it, bit sweet though)
HB9: *laughs and playfully punches* no its not, its really nice!
Me: Hey whatever does it for you *smile*
Turns out this girl is actually dating a good friend of mine who arrived late, so that kinda blew things.
So talked to a few more girls and then it was off clubbing, went into the club smiling and feeling good and went straight up to this HB7 at the bar.
Me: Hey you having a good night?
HB7: *smiles* yeah not bad, just feel so old in this place though
Me: Really? You only look 19
HB7: *giggles* your just saying that
Me: No really, you genuinley look really young (she actually did)
*turns out she was 26, we continued chatting and i built up the kino with just some touching of her shoulder etc. and she kept playfully punching me back when she thought i was joking* then i wished her a good night and moved on.
Continued just going round and speaking to people, and i got takling to this one HB6 about nothing in particular, although i did notice her HB7 (at least i think she was, i was pretty drunk at this point and it was really dark) friend eye fucking me from a few feet away, i just smiled at her though and walked on as i was kinda neglecting my friends by this point.
Anyway as i got walking past the dance floor i feel this hand grab me and pull me, as i turn round this girls HB7 friend is standing there.
Me: Hey thei..*she interrupts*
Possible HB7: I just really wanna kiss you
Me: Do you now, *cant remember exactly what i said, but i think it was something like "and why should i let you?"
Hb7: Im a real good kisser
Me: fair enough *kiss*
And then she walked off.
Fast forward a few hours and a few more girls and its about half an hour to closing and im kind of my last legs at the moment - drank like a fish all night. So me and my mate are on the dance floor and i see these two girls (hb7 and hb8)sitting down looking pretty miserable, so i tell my mate to wait there.
Me: You two look really bored, come and dance with me.
HB8: giggles and says something but i couldnt really hear and she wakls off
HB7: No. *she looked really pissed off*
Me: Ok no worries *walk off*
By this point i figured its time to call it a night and i go to find my mate on the dance floor and hes surrounded by his gf and her friends. As i go up to tell him im off, one of the friends (Hb7) grabs my arm and just starts dancing with me. Now this was weird because i met her briefly before and she gave off no impression that she fancied me or anything like that and just seemed quite dull, but hey i guess alcohol played its bit.
So i dance with her for a bit and she turns around and starts kissing me, i dont think she actually said a word to me the rest of the night - just kissed and danced.
After a few minutes the lights come up and its time to go. Me and my friends all pretty much walk the same way home and it turns out this girl was staying with him and his gf tonight so i walked back with her, just talked about crap, where you from? what do you do? etc. and half way home we realise we've lost everyone.
Presumably my friend and his gf ditched us to go fool around so i give him a call and he tells me he'll be 15mins. So obviously this girl wants to wait for them so she can actually get into the house. We talk for some more and one thing lead to another and we're kissing again just at the side of this road and 15 mins pass and my friend still isnt here so we carry on and thigns start getting a little more heated. Ill spare you guys the rest of the details but lets just say I didnt get back home to 6:30am and i had a shit load of grass and leaves in my hair.
On the whole a good night, bit dissapointed i didnt get any numbers from me actually opening on girls. Found it quite difficult to lead things on from opening, the conversation just seemed to fizzle out and its not the kind of club where you can go and sit down as its so crowded. But ah well, im proud of myself for sucking up the nerves and just approaching people, im out again tonight so will see if i can improve my game a bit.
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