Most of my crash and burn are usually instant , so I guess they only made me stronger and help me destroy AA because the worst thing that could happen is they leave!
But here's wat happnd recently i think could be considered crash and burn. I met a HB 8 who is insecure but nice girl. She was digging me and I was workin my magic. I was on top of my game when I met her because I was seeing two other girls. Evetually we went out and we liked each other and things got serious. I wanted her to be my gf but she said she needed time becase she was still doesnt really ready to get back to relationship scene... I said I'll wait ...i was crazy about her and did some AFC stuff...After waiting 5 months ..she was "incharge" of us by that time and she got bored of us and eventually gave me the LJBF speech!
5 months waitng, no sex and being a AFC later i sound desperate and clingy now to every woman..but im getting bac in shape!
bottom line: just because she is a nice girl doesnt mean u have to be a nice guy!