Hello all,

since I'm pretty new to this scene, I've never shared any reports, so here's the first one:

yesterday was a crazy night, cause I never kissed 3 girls on 1 night before. So here's the situation:

- First girl was pretty lame: I used a simple standard indirect opener, and threw just a few negs, a DHV story, little bit of kino and a funny game to her, in which I won a beer from her. I don't know how I did it, but as we stood at the bar, she just looked at me and I just knew I should kiss her. So I did.

- 2nd girl was kinda similar, although this one was a bit harder. After I found out she had a boyfriend (she said it was a 'complex situation') I decided to just go for a number close, but when she wanted to leave I said: come here, I didn't like this way of leaving. Then I grabbed her hands and kissed her, although pretty short.

-the 3rd girl was very easy. There was no gaming, because I already knew her and I knew that I could easily kiss her. So I did, and it was GROSS.


Alright, so here I have some questions for you:

1. Was this 'succesfull' night really a result of PUA material, or was it just the situation? I don't know what I can trust.
2. The first girl, which I really liked, had very 'abrupt' manners in her mobile messages. Is there something I can do which will make her want to see ME again?

Sounds like its a combination of PUA gaming and your Confidence, although gaming does alot of work for you, its down to your confidence to lean in and kiss her, which takes alot of confidence man, so well done on that, and the other kisses...

Since your new to this, I wouldnt bother 'seriously' chasing up someone who's taking alot of effort on the phone game, just use her as practice for something you wanna try out, maybe something you've seen on the forum. You should try to build on the basics, get comfortable gettings a few k and # closes a night, and just use trail and error on the phone game to set up day 2's. that way when you meet a nice girl you really wanna see again, you';; know exactly how to handle the situation.

Hope this helps.

Hey Phate,

thank you for the trust I decided to continue to work on my game and indeed go for a girl that REALLY gives me butterflies. It's just so amazing to see it all work, and it gives me much more confidence.