Over this weekend I went to a huge country music festival in Craven, Saskatchewan. Over 20,000 people go, everyone stays in trailers or tents and there are some huge parties after the concerts.

On Saturday night after the Clint Black Concert, me and my buddies went to this party at this one site near ours. I saw this HB8 sitting by her self. I sit down beside and use an observational opener about her being by herself. I get her laughing and tell her I need a refill on my beer and if she would like to accompany to my campsite for fresh beers. Her response was "Just so you know I'm not getting with you." My response was the classic "Thats fine. Your not my type."

After we get beers, we continue walking and go to a bigger party. Along the way I neg her on her smile, etc. We get to the party and I escalate kino on her. She starts rubbing my chest. And thats when I knew I was golden.

She asks me to dance, we dance. After the dance, she tells me "She's never felt so comfortable around someone so quickly." So thats when I go in for the kiss. We start making out for a bit.

She tells me she has to go the bathroom, then we can leave. She grabs me by the hand and leads me to the porta potties. I go in the one beside her. I take maybe 10-15 seconds longer than her to finish peeing.

When I get out, she's completely gone. She Houdinied on me. I have no idea where she left. I know her friends where at the party and her site was close to it. So my only theory is that her friends saw her and took her back to their site.

Just Venting,
B-Man

Hey, that line: "That's fine. You're not my type." That's money, I'm going to use it next time I hear something like that.

At music festivals and large events like that attraction can be fleeting. There are people everyone.

Since there is so much stimulation at outdoor concerts the basic rule with someone you've just met is 'out of sight, out of mind'. You probably should have stationed yourself in front of her porta-potty like a sentinel in front of King Solomon's tomb.

Also, you built up the sexual tension by starting kino and dancing, but you may have lost some of it when you started making out with her. It might have been better to make like you are going to kiss her and pull back at the last second to keep the tension high.