Part I - Introducing Fundamentals

I recently made friends with some bar girls who are friends of friends. After a month or so of flirting with one of the girls, who i actually had feelings for (AFC) i found the game and became infatuated by this concept of meet and greet. My feelings for the girl have since dispersed. Her friend alternatively has quite a flirty nature and we could cuddle and hug whenever we were around each other.

Part II - The Initiation

4 AM, myself and the two girl are in a car park after clubbing near one of the girls house waiting on some mates. Nature called and decided to deal with it on the closet tree. The flirty girl had a lollipop in her mouth, so i teased her with, 'where is mine? i want one! give me that one!' being drunk, she started teasing back and saying, no you cant have it ... then after some more small talk, she took the lollipop out of her mouth and gave me a kiss on the lips. This came as a massive surprise to me, even if it was just flirting i wasn't expecting it.

Part III - Misread Flirting

It was a Friday night and we were at the bar where the girls worked for a reunion drinks or something like (they had both been away for a week or so) The flirty girl made a joke and said lets get married and put a ring on my finger which she was wearing. I then said, 'I didn't even get the chance to propose!' so i leaned into her and said her name softly and as i was about to say 'will you marry me' to play along with the joke, she kissed me again! this was supposed to be the 'marriage' kiss, but none the less it was unprovoked from my end.

later that night....

After walking into a brick wall, i had a relatively sore knee and found it necessary to make a big deal about it and complain that my knee hurt, which i thought was a fairly ok thing to do considering my knee was swelling up. Of course i was still doing it in the awkward manner i have which the people that were with us found amusing. BACK TO THE STORY, we were standing at the traffic lights which were all of about 10 metres from the wall which i had just walked in to.. and the girl was being hugged/kept warm by a friend because i was talking to another girl. I look over the flirty girl and she puts her lips indicating for another kiss.. now looking back in i should have probably denied her, but these things happen.

Part IV - The Date, I Guess?

After sometime had elapsed i felt as though i should try and push my PUA skills and use this girl as a means for this. I invited the girl (still flirty girl) to meet me in the city at around midday. We met up and i told her follow me, and we walked off towards the botanic gardens. We managed to settle in quite well and were playing around on the picnic rug i had provided, just telling stories and commenting on things which were thought were funny around us. I ran a poor version of the cube routine on her and a poorly executed trust test on her. Both of which i thought were a success at the time... after some more chatting and comfort rapport, i decided its now or never.. i need to K-CLOSE! now, if anyone knows me which they dont, aside from brados, i dont regularly kiss girls and have a .... phobia? i guess about initiating kissing (maybe because of the classic line, lets just be friends?) all of that aside, i ran the eyelashes routine thanks! (cant remember the posters name)

basically it goes like so...

You: Stare awkwardly at the girls eyelashes and hold for enough time that they catch on and you both have the social awkwardness where you both realise that you are looking at something which draws attention to it. You will realise when this is. IF you dont, try going into a lift and standing the opposite way to everyone, once you pick up on that vibe of ... hmm well this is kind of weird...

You: Hey are they fake eye lashes?

Her: No of course not! (or something to that degree)

You: No, seriously are they fake eyelashes (still hold the awkward gaze)

You: Close your eyes .. BAM plant one on her.

Field tested and 0/1 YESSSS, she sensed i was coming and kind of pushed my face away. It was quite hard to deal with it at the time, but i tried to remain cool about it. Later on when we were walking through the gardens i made a joke about her not even wanting to kiss her husband.. which i dont think really went down THAT well.. the day ended ok and everything seemed to actually transition well after the failed k-close.


Part V - Closing the curtain, is that an encore i hear?

I didnt have any contact with her since (a whole 2 days) and i was playing soccer on the local school with some friends. I go home and check my phone and lo and behold, i have a message from the flirty girl saying hey! im going out tonight are you going out tonight? At that point in time i was going out, but later decided to not go out because i was tired and not really in the mood so i just hung with some mates.

My question after that essay like post, what am i to make of this situation?

Do i :

(a) push for k-close again
(b) leave it as a friends thing
(c) Other suggestions

I understand it is a hard gig to work from the friends level to suddenly being sexually active, but i had a good feeling at the time and just tried to work off of that vibe. I understand having refined routines would have helped immensely, and who knows, it might not have led to k-close but i still cant make the important connection of distinguishing myself as threat without scaring the target off, if its just on a friends level, i would probably have a cabinet full of awards and medals because of the sheer ability i have to create friendship!

Thanks for reading this probably overly long post!

Dingo -