Went to a friends house for a gathering last night. There were four guys there including myself and three girls. One was a HB7.5, one was a HB7 and one was a HB6-6.5 depending on your taste. Normally I hang out with better looking girls but most of them were old friends and it was just a friends gathering.

My target was the HB7, I'll call her "M" who arrived with her guy friend. It was obvious they were just friends, but as he was both her ride there and back, and they had known each other for a awhile I knew he was the cockblock I needed to disarm. Without going into too many details, I think I played the game fairly well, I was definitely alpha all night, which wasn't too hard cause I'm kind of the leader of my group of friends anyways, and I made sure I used lots of CF. My boys 9 year old brother was kinda hanging around us (we were all between 19-24) and I guitar hero with him for a little bit to DHV? I think it worked but I guess I can't for sure tell. The two other girls have been good friends with me for about 3 years and they were my pivots all night.at one point, the HB 7.5 said at one point, "DXB12, you're really good with words...i think you could talk anyone into just about anything" and this got the whole group laughing. I tried to take it CF by saying "yea im a hustla" kind of as a joke, but I wasn't sure what exactly to say? she definitely meant it as a compliment, but the sexual implications were there and I didnt want my target to think I was a playa or sleazy.

Anyways, all the IOIs were there, we were hanging in a group and she would keep start up conversations directed at me, she kept glancing at me, the only thing was I had to leave at like 930 cause I had work the next morning so I had to get up at 5. I work until about 6 pm so getting up is the non-issue its just functioning through the day. Anyways, it turns out she had classes the next morning and had to go home too. Her friend was supposed to be her driver, but I suggested I take her because she only lived like 10 minutes away from me, and we both lived about 30 minutes away from my friends house.

In the car, there was talk about relationships and everything, and I'm not sure if she had planned on KCing, but she put on perfume and offered me gum, etc etc and we had a great talk on the way home. It turns out she has a boyfriend and we discussed relationships for awhile. I haven't been paying attention on BF destroyers so I just kind of went through the what do you consider cheating routine. any suggestions?

There was a little bit of kino, she kept touching my arm in the car but in retrospect I should have been more sexual and kinoed her back. As i dropped her off she said how about I give you my number so we can continue this conversation. She gave me her number and asked me to miss call her so she would have mine, and to call her in 2 days so we can go out thursday (i work 6 days a week interning SPAM so my only night out is thursday).

My sticking point right now is the transition....I definitely built up rapport, demostrated social value and proof, got her interested and what not....but once I had built up that emotional connection, and especially once I found out she had a bf I had problems transitioning that to a sexual connection. I guess I was afraid of failing and her thinking I was sleazy for trying to get a girl with a BF, which is EXTREMELY afc of me.

comments, suggestions, advice, relating to the concepts I listed here, the problems with sticking points and what not, and advice for going out this thursday are appreciated. I'll be going out with roughly the same crew I think, plus or minus another guy or girl.

Oh, and right now it is wednesday morning (tuesday night was the gathering). I usually call early evening the night before I want to go out if its casual like going to a lounge or club....but we just met on tuesday. is calling on wednesay appropriate seeing how thursday night is the night or is that too soon and should I take my chance and all her thursday?