| Eager to practice the game, I was invited to the last crew party of the year. Socially proofed out the wazoo ( I was on the crew team for the last three semesters) I decided to practice game, in a somewhat safe environment.
I typically try to open at least three women a night, and then go have fun and if the opportunity presents it self practice game. Otherwise I find that too much rides on your results and you don't got out having fun.
The first set I opened was a two set that came in my friends room to talk,
I opened with the Do you think girls see when other girls wear make up opener, with no time constraint, The obstacle started talking, and the target agreed, but then I fucked up (miscalibrated or something). I was trying to be cocky funny but the tone of the convo was somewhat serious, I asked the target if she was wearing make up (dumb because it was glittery) and then was like, its ok im sure your still pretty. Despite my smile I didnt say it right, because she didnt laugh. She said Oh ok, (not amused mind you) and the obstacle was like, are you serious her make up is glittery how do you not see it in this well lit room. I fluffed and I ejected and went on.
A little bit later, I opened a second set with the jealous girlfriend opener, that got them talking but I couldnt really bring out the cocky funny DHV stuff because they got to into talking to them selves.
I broke to go grind and dance with some girls who had been to a party of mine who had opened me asking if i remember them. I wasnt intersted in gaming them so I just focused on having fun and griding with them. That put me on a natural high so when I left to get air I noticed a three set standing in the corridor outside the makeshift dance floor.
I busted on them for not dancing and got both obstacles dancing, and then the target wasnt dancing so i busted on her for that. That got both obstacles laughing and the target weakly tried to come back with (what are you wearing, is that a shirt) (it was a 90's party so I had cut the arms of a tuxedo shirt and was wearing that.) I responded with what was in retrospect a harsher neg that was called for. I said " you know, yes its a shirt, something that is socially acceptable to wear. Have you never seen a shirt before? *turn to obstacles* Man she doesnt get out much does she?" At this point she was clearly tired of me making fun of her and she left but one of the obstacles (who was kinda cute stayed behind). She asked me my name, and we talked and I tried to spin her for a lock in but she was bit drunk and just spun into the same spot. (mental note, dont talk to a girl side to side its a wierd position to be in and really hard to spin into lock in from) I ran the esp routine on her for fun, and asked her to come dance. She then seemed to become aware that her friends werent here and was like I dont know I have to find my friends, so I said pleasure meeting you and ejected.
Overall, im improving tiny bit by tiny bit, but each interaction is like cocaine, its a total rush.
Things to work on,
Figure out how to pull of negs, socially calibrate them
SLOW THE FUCK DOWN, I get so caught up in what im doing its like trying to hold back a river, I rush from routine to routine with out building them and at the end its just like a mad catharsis, not how its supposed to be done IMHO (sure theres somehting to be said for plowing but you have to do it properly)
Talk slower
Don't Peck.
Don't try to neg everyhting in sight. <-- some help on this. When should I neg/ who should I neg.
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