Well this is my first field report in a while since I hadnt been out gaming in a month, but oh well, heres how my latest night of gaming went down.

I was up in Whistler, BC for the May long weekend which is a holiday here in Canada, and it is the weekend where the High School grads come up to party every year. So I decided to make the trip this year with my buddy Scott who is gradding so I could run some game on the high school girls (Its not that creepy cuz Im still 19 haha). Anyways, Friday night was a bust so I wont even bother getting into that, but Saturday was one hell of a night.

So Im with Scott and one of his high school buddies, Kyle, and we start off the night at a party with a bunch of stoners. As soon as I got there I wanted to leave. I dont do drugs, I dont smoke, and I barely drink so this was not the place I wanted to be. The guys were losers and there was about 6 girls there. 3 of the girls were complete greasers so I was not inspired to run game on them. Another girl and a BF there. Then the final 2 girls were doing their hair getting ready to go out. Of these girls, one was an HB7 Shaina, the other was an HB9 Janine. After being there about 30 mins, my buddy tells me that were gonna head to another better party (with a few of the people we were with) at the other side of the village. This was great to hear since I couldnt wait to get outta the place.

I leave the party with Scott, Kyle, their friend Trevor, his GF Marly, HB7 Shaina, and HB9 Janine. As were leaving the party I try to open Janine...

Me: Your really short (and pat her on the head)
HB: (laughs) Im not that short, your just big
Me: Im big? haha In (sport) Im considered small.
HB: Your a _____ player?
Me: You know it
HB: OMG I love ____ players! _____ players are hot! Your Hot!
Me: Ya I know, Thanks. Your not bad either.

So HB9 Janine became my target at that point. On our way to the next party most of the talk within the group was fluff and just jokes, I wasnt being aggressive enough with my game at this point, and was basically just trying to maintain Higher Value. I threw in some jokes, and was just trying to have a good time. It wasnt till the next party that I really stepped my game up. We walk into the hotel room and I find myself sitting on the couch with Janine and Shaina. But my attention is focused on Janine. Yes I know the rule of thumb is to engage the obstacle as well, but I said fuck it and just went right after my target. Somehow I got hold of a camera and I found myself taking pictures of me n her. And Im just teasing her hard about everything but shes just eating it up. She suggests that we dance (cuz noone was dancing) so I go and crank up the tunes and pick her up alpha style and start dancing for abit. And somehow I end up with my shirt off. (Dont ask me how, I was drinking abit I cant remember haha). This goes on for a few minutes, then someone suggests we go to another party on the other side of the village so I put on my shirt and head out again.

So now were outside waiting for a taxi, and Janine is pretty much all over me. She wants me to take off my shirt again, and I suggest we go streaking. Which doesnt happen, but eventually my shirt comes off again and she takes it and puts it on. So now all I have is my jacket with no shirt haha. We end up heading over to the next party, where were literally there for about 5 mins when Janine suggests we go back into the village.

So as were walking back to the village she takes my jacket, so now im completely shirtless. But I was having fun so I didnt care. I ended up piggy backing Janine for the next few minutes. We were just talking and having a good time, and things were just going to good for me. So good that I forgot the cardinal rule of this game, and that is to close. Which would come back to haunt me. We were walking through the village back to the original place where we were at (where I was intending to close her), when we ran into her On/Off BF. Fuck me right. And after all I had done she goes with him. Even though her friends were rooting for me at this point because they dont like her On/Off BF haha.

Basically, I lost it for myself because I waited too long to try and close. Looking back, I couldve easily just pulled her aside and K-closed. Oh well I cant change the past so Im not gonna lose sleep over it. I added her on facebook yesterday, and I plan on talking to her in the chat part. Im not really sure how I should go about this, so I guess Im just gonna give'r and see what happens haha. If anyone has some advice Id appreciate it greatly.

First of all, I envy you man. When I was 19 I knew absolutely nothing about seducing women. You are years ahead of your time.

From the way I read this it sounds like this girl was really attracted to you--like natural attraction, not game attraction. The only place I see you selling yourself short is that you believe you should have kiss closed, when in fact, I believe you could have f-closed. The attraction, body language, playfulness.... it was all there.

Of course, you didn't know that you would run into her boyfriend. This isn't your fault and this turn of events but a dagger in your night.

In my experience, you have to f-close a girl with a boyfriend/husband as fast as possible. Why? Because the more time you take to f-close, the more time they have to stew on guilty feelings of cheating. Taking advantage of that sexual energy you had built up was the key point. It's like you brought her into another reality, another world. Now, if you attempt to f-close again you are going to have to start from ground zero. But at least you have broken the ice a little bit and she feels comfortable with you.

In short, my advice is to try to f-close her the next time you meet her. Carry on the email/chat banter for no longer than 2 weeks while building up sexual tension and then f-close.

Good luck man

Clozer

Man... I recognized several of the various techniques weaved into that story, but I'm thinking that going right in put her in charge and I would have made her trade something for my shirt or jacket, maybe a kiss close there?

I did some country music DJing a couple clubs in SoCal some years back. Girls were always wanting to grab and wear my hat. The standard line is always, "Darlin you don't take a cowboy's hat unless your planning to take him home with ya." It worked 3 out of 10 times for the prescribed exchange but almost always got some sort of physical escalation going. I say the next time a HB wants you to take off your shirt or jacket you make her work for it.

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Thanks man. I agree with everything you said. I really believe I could have F-Closed for sure as well. She said it was her on/off BF and she was even saying how she was contemplating dumping him. But ya your right now I have to start from ground zero which is really bugging me. I dont know what Im going to say. The more I think about it, the more its screwing me up mentally. If someone could help me out with a simple opener I know I could figure out a way to run with the conversation. Anyways, thanks for the advice, Im gonna try and do that. I kinda want to try and date this girl because she is that hot haha.

Ya your right I shouldve made her work for the shirt and jacket, but when your drinking (which is the risk I took) its hard to remember all the "rules". Most of the time my response is the generic "hands off the merchandise etc..." But I simply forgot. Even though I shouldve done this, I still think I couldve closed.

Ya so I just finished chatting with the girl on facebook...and I dont think it went well. I was able to draw up positive memories from a couple of nights ago, which she liked. But it didnt seem to go well when I tried to use some qualification methods. I tried to do The Cube with her, and she didnt take to it. She said it seemed kinda creepy, and that she had to get off the comp soon anyways. Oh well, just another failure to add to the collection I guess haha.

Hey man, you kicked ass. I’m thinking when you didn’t show up on Friday night she felt rejected and that’s hard to recover from.

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You did really well there are a few points I want to bring up, never do the cube (9/10 it is the wrong situation). Also you should have been trying to isolate earlier or better yet gone for the kiss whilst on the seat with her friend, then as long as her friend likes you she will butt out and tell everyone else she is taken (great way to disarm 3rd parties).

Other that that really good man, keep up the hard work

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for 19, you are way ahead of the curve. i was at the end of college before i started to see men/women relationships for how they ACTUALLY work/the true dynamic. lesson learned and keep walking forward. good job champ.

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