Hello guys,

As I said on my online post the other day, I feel much more confident about my pick up now... so confident that I decided to pick up a proper stripper. I have been introduced to PUAs almost two years ago and it worked well so far, although it was hard at the beginning, but am willing to pick up more quality women.

Tonight was my first night in a strip club, I ll keep you posted about the progress in future posts.

So here I was in the strip club. I chose a quite high level one. I gone there with a former gf, HB8 at around 7pm. I stayed there an hour or so. Did not plan to stay longer anyways. The club was very quiet as expected and that's the reason why we came in early.

I had three goals in this hour:
1. get known by the girls, get noticed as different from other men
2. get known by the barman
3. dont pay ANYTHING to any girl

I think it worked well, the ladies were really curious about why I came with a pretty hot girl. I was not distracted by the ladies dancing.

I went to the toilets at some point and the barman was there too... so I begun to talk to him... a lovely man, who was bored to death as it was very very quiet. So second objective was achieved too. Am sure I can go back and he will be happy to talk... could possibly tip him well next time.

At some point two ladies come and chat us up, me and my friend. It s the first time am in PUA mode with a stripper. It is very different... I did neg her, but I think I could neg harder... those women know how to play with men... I did my best not to let her play with me though, but I feel they really know what you and they are doing and dont let you get away with it.

A summary of the convo (which lasted about 15min?)
Strip: hello what are you guys doing here?
Me: well we're having a drink together, cant you see?
Strip: oh ok, it rare to see women in here... I mean... it strange!
Me: are we welcome though?
Strip: (a bit confused) err... yes... it s ok! Where you from?
Me: guess!
Strip: ok but if I do you have to do something for me...
Me: depends... I ll have a veto on that one...
Strip: Russia?
Me: no no! you crap
Strip: Italy?
Me: NO! LEt's see if you know your geography! on the west...
(she could not find..) So I did neg her hard!

Then she started to try to entice me.. implying she was hot... saying to look at her body...
I answered that I was a photographer, and I was used to hot women.. and she had to behave... she was too naughty...

she seemed ok with being naughty it seemed.

she was talking next to me... almost pretending to kiss me.... I did not try anything and was doing alright on controlling myself...

We talked about tattoos then, she said she had one, I asked her to tell me what it was and I would tell her where it was.... she was not willing to play that game and said I wanted to know and maybe I'll see it when she dances... I said I was not interested in her dancing and again, I thought she was fun, maybe I was wrong. She answered she will certainly have fun tonight. Did not answer that one... did not know what to say really...

a few more negs when she touched my shoulder...

then it went that way:
Me: what's your name?
Strip: Debbie
Me: I used to be a dancer in paris a long time ago (am165cm... am no dancer whatsoever)
Strip: You were not!
Me: yes I was, and my stage name was Hercules, when women asked me my name, I had to answer Hercules.... that was part of the job, you can know my name, if I know yours.
Strip: erm... no!
Me: ok then

Then I negged her more in front of her stripper collegue about her geography knowledge... or lack of it...

Then she asked me for how long I was in the strip club, she could offer private dance... I gently declined invoking I false time constraint and having to go soon. Then she asked if I could buy her a drink and join us... I declined and said... "maybe next time! I dont even know your name... and I dont buy drink to people I dont know" she said it was debbie. I said it was not.

Then she left and danced, we were almost the only person in the bar, and I did not even looked at her... I actually did not noticed she danced until she left the stage.

Am quite happy of the night. Did get mostly what I want.. and actually I had fun.
Am disappointed about a few things...
1. the stripper I talked to left... she left to dance on the stage... I did not show any interest in her really... and actually she is not the one I would pick up if I had to chose, but still, she left... I feel bad she left us... How could I have done to not make her leave, or let her leave in a smart way... not by feeling "she is the one who decides to leave..." but more by making her feel she is feeling cause I am NOT interested in HER whatsoever but she'd like to flirt with me.
2. I negged her, but I should have negged hardcore... and I mean HARDCORE
3. Never tell her what to do... it could work with other women... but I feel strippers like to be the boss.... and you have to treat them as if they were... not sure about that one... let me know what you guys think.

Am eager to receive your comments on it.

I'll go back next week with another chick, do you think it s ok if I go with a HB6 (but very very chatty, the strippers would love her I think)

I will send you my new comments on this topic named strip club sarge - step 2

Best,
CM.