Gentleman
This is my latest installment ….I’ll progress from an online pickup to a cold pickup. To get things started I had been conversing with a target for about 2 weeks online. Back and forth chit chat bullshit setup the meet up always displaying that my schedule is rather busy, I can fit you in type stuff. Meet the lady for drinks at a local bar in downtown Colorado Springs, nice place good beer. Good story telling got the Kino going, but learned very quickly (based off my training) that attraction wasn’t happening. Had some Kino happening but didn’t have that vibe, time to change tactics, focused on having a good time. Had a great time though Kino back and forth classic story telling, had her laughing up a storm, went for sushi, over all it was a good time. Definite possibility for a day two. I think of her as my startup, on a scale she was a 6. After the day I ended up in a local martini bar, and that when the night turned into high gear, I stepped up to the bar like I owned it, this was my place is the attitude you need, when you solo sarge . There was a mixed set and a 3 set. Based off the body language the 3 set was beyond me. Here is how I knew. The 3 sets had their backs to me, we rubbed shoulders a few times didn’t even phase them. Could I have opened them, yeah I could have but their body languages screamed out don’t. Pay attention to this stuff guys
The mixed set was a different story. The target was a definite 8, instantly I blended into the set, it was so easy. Did a classic over the shoulder hey how it is going, got the good vibe from the target, eyes up and down. Within 5 seconds she told me her name, where she was from
Guys it is easier then you think, the techniques that are taught work, hands down, if they don’t work for you , then it is you not the techniques.
The guy was your classic AFC, everything about him portrayed a weak personality, dancing monkey. Starting talking up the target, then things got better.
Style in the annihilation method talks about fashion a lot. Earlier that day I went shopping to prepare with the date. I picked up clothes I would never buy, before. Went with a nice pair of jeans and this retro shirt, really I didn’t think about the shirt as awesome, but was I wrong. Back to the story…
I’m talking up with this target, and I guys walks up and say “dude your shirt is fucking awesome, where did you get it” then he starts saying stuff like that is the coolest shirt he had ever seen... Two words came to mind, Social Validation, my value just soared. After that she starts with the Kino, totally ignoring her guy, She mentions that she wants to go dancing, did a classic push pull, ok you go dance I’m heading to a local cigar bar for a cigar, instantly she changes her mind lets go for a cigar. Attraction was totally there, classic stuff guys, playing with the hair, eye movements, asking a tons of questions about me my life, what I like ……..More Kino, more social validation due to my fashion choice. At this new venue she starts with “you’re awesome”, my social value skyrockets in the room, another HB comes up to me, and I ignore her which worked just like you read. The jealous plot line with the first girl worked like a champ. . My body language was always in tune with what was happening. Other guys suddenly want to be my bud. We bounced to another venue, and this is where tons more Kino, kiss close, but then shit went south. She got hammered; I ended up having to load her into her friend’s car.
Was it a bad night? Fuck no It was awesome, guys stick to the techniques read and practice your routine over and over again. Have preset stories to tell, work every angle to charge forward. Stay focused and don’t get hammered. Have a two drink maximum if you are going to drink. Remember you are playing a game, when the techniques fail it is because you lost sight of the fact that you are playing a game. One thing I did was take charge of the frame; it became apparent rather quickly that they wanted to hang with me because I was the shit.
Guys I’m not a PUA by any means, I was nice guy, a dancing monkey, looking for women to fulfill my life, bros is not their jobs to fulfill our lives.
Don’t give up
Alpinehigh