hey all, this is my first field report and ill admit, this wont be my best.
ive only really been introduced to the game and the community about a week or so ago. this particular area of my life is a complete failure and after reading the book 'the game' and watching videos and reading things on this site ive decided that i really want to dramatically changed my lifestyle. i no longer want to be the guy hearing stories from other people about their love lives and relationships and experiences. especially when i have absolutely none of my own. not to go off topic lol but ive never kissed, slept or been in a relationship with a girl. so obviously i know i need to break out of the box, and out of my comfort zone into something worthwhile like what you guys have.
anyway back to the evening, my friend (bigdave87) and i planned to go out together to tiger tiger, which we heard was a great place to go. i was really hyped up about the evening, rehearsing openers, watching videos on pickups etc and was ready for the evening.
when we got there we went straight in which was great, no queues whatsoever. paid entry fee and began scouting and wandering around the place to get a real good feel for it, it was my first time there. we eventually made are way to the dancefloor, and ill admit i did feel a little uneasy at first, and after dancing a little i did relax a bit. there were girls all around, hb's ranging from 6-9 easily. but i couldnt appoach any of them, just felt like i was holding back, and the more i thought about it, or fought that idea, time was just flying by.
the evening wasnt all bad, i did open a hb-8 dancing next to me, i noticed she didnt have shoes on and just said to her if she realised it lol. the kino there was quite good as well, she cupped my head in her arms and had her lips on my ear talking to me, but she and her friend wondered off after so many guys tried groping them and dry humping them, competing like true AMOGs.
hrs had passed after wondering around, and dancing in the different rooms, still hadnt danced close with a girl, had a proper convo, number closed or k-closed.
we sat downstaird to chill for a while and 4 girls had approached us and asked if they could sit down for a bit. me and dave were in the middle of them, 2 girls either side of us. we got chatting, made a few jokes but they didnt stay for long as they were heading home.
we went back to dancing and again i couldnt bring myself to dance close with any of the hot girls i saw, even the one i think gave me that indication to approach.
our evening drew to a close at half 2 and we made are way home.
all in all the evening wasnt too bad, got a tiny bit of kino, opened a couple of girls, but still felt like something was holding me back, and it was really frustrating, its harder than i thought to break out that box.
i was really hoping that for my first time out sarging, and from reading and watching so much stuff on PUA's that id have been able to do something. does anyone have any advice that can help me? because right now i feel this is going to be an impossibility, a hurdle i cant seem to jump, so to speak. anyway cheers for reading this, if you did, this was my first proper time sarging and my first proper post, go easy
CHAT