this is 3 days after a number close

anchor one or two points you both enjoyed from the last time you spoke, make it funny. end text with a question, try to make it relevant but it's basically a false opinion, like an opener.

Whatever the answer, just go for another false opinion question.

She'll probably reply with a one word answer, or an aloof statement. women do this. punish neg.

example: i stuck 2 points from when we met, one was about piercings so the question i ended with was "should i get my lip re pierced?" response "sure why not piercings are cool" "hmm should i do basic silver or black?" her response "i dunno about that" my response "wow i guess we cant leave the big decisions up to you either huh haha" her response "haha yep" my response " thats why the next time we hang out i'll have to pick the place"

it was a light neg, through in the haha because its a text and she has to know im joking. then used a "we" scenario, inputting into her mind the idea of us together, followed by an alpha "demand" for a second date as apposed to asking like an afc.

her response "yeah but barA is always good" my response "you just like barA because thats where you met me. i say barB tomorrow at 9"

this time it was a cocky funny punish statement, regaining control.

"i will deff be out tomorrow" my response "well be at barB at 9"

see there? where she tried to be aloof again? punish with a declaration.

"well i work until 9 but i'll be out later" i did not like the ambivilant nature of this statement. my response "well 10 is better for me anyway, i have to get back to work tho, see you then" and then "okie doke" from her

Tonight will be the proof and i'll post back with how it went, or if she even shows up. The beauty part? who cares if she does or does not? Either way at 10 i will be at that bar, talking to some other HB, which will either work as preselection if she shows up, or on to another one who might not be a flake.

ps sorry about the difference in how this FR started and ended, it started out as a theory and turned into a report. and im not really a fan of the term "punish" but its accurate