I’m an entrepreneur, world traveler, and all-around cool dude.
If you’re reading this you and I probably also have something in common…
We’re both into pickup.
Or at the very least, you like the idea of pickup.
Being able to meet and date as many girls as you want.
That had been my dream for a long time. And fortunately, that dream is now a reality.
I’m sure you want to know how I got to this point, so let’s take a step back to where this all began…
In 2008 I was alone, frustrated and worried.
I had just broken up with my girlfriend and was starting to wonder if I’d ever meet another girl again.
That’s when I discovered the pickup community.
All the stories I had heard and the idea of pickup excited me beyond belief.
It was then, 10 years ago, that it became my goal to be able to meet and sleep with a new girl every day, or whenever I wanted, without any hassle.
I was tired of being lonely, and welcomed the opportunity that the pickup community brought to me.
So my journey began.
Shy little Toby was running around the bars, trying to pick up girls and get as many numbers as he could.
I still remember how excited I was when I got my first few numbers.
In a short amount of time, I was fairly consistent in being able to get a girls number at the bar.
But that’s all I got.
I was frustrated because despite getting the number, all I got were flakes and no shows.
After about 3 months of this grind, and with some free coaching, I still wasn’t seeing any results.
I still couldn’t get laid.
It was at this point that a massive shift happened.
I was moving from Denmark to Australia and began doing daygame instead of hitting the clubs and bars.
I started to really enjoy doing daygame and quickly became very good at it.
Most of my approaches resulted in numbers, and even some instant dates!
I finally felt like this is how it should be - that I had actually gotten close to achieving my goal.
Fast forward to 2018.
My friend lives in the Philippines part of the year and was telling me about how awesome life is there.
The lifestyle, and weather… the girls!
Here’s something you didn’t know about me: I kinda have a thing for Asians.
When he mentioned that I gave it some thought and decided to hop on a flight in January of 2019 and head to the Philippines.
Except for this time I wanted to do things differently.
I had heard about Tim Ferris hiring a Virtual Dating Assistant (VDA) in order to set up dates for him, and wanted to give it a try myself.
I wanted to see if it really was possible.
To meet a new girl every day, but without the loud music, the clubs, the approaches, the flakes, the back and forth chat and the scheduling.
I wanted to see if my goal of being able to meet and date as many girls as I wanted without the hassle and struggle that normally comes with it really is achievable.
Maybe with a VDA it is...
I guess you’re going to find out.