Ok I was in a relationship for a girl that I gamed on for about a year and a half but it didn't quite work out so I moved on. I've met this girl who's a friend of a friend and had 4 dates with her, managing to kiss close on date 4. I want to know where to take this further.

Encounter 1- I go to a bar with her and our mutual friend. We talk a bit but its mostly between me and mutual friend. Mutual friend throws up quite badly after that so we end up taking care of her and not talking much.

Encounter 2- I go to movies with her and mutual friend. Am slightly hungover after a night out sarging at a nightclub. We go for dinner after that. I get her number. Mutual friend tells me afterwards that she finds me "pretentious" but also "nice" and "friendly." Seems to be AFC descriptors so I cringe.

Encounter 3- I go for a concert with her. Mutual friend is not present. Before that though, we go to Starbucks to hang out. I read her palm, do the C & U shape smile and the "I bet I can guess the number in your head" coldread on her. I neg her quite a bit throughout. She clearly enjoys herself, although whether its cause of me or the concert I don't know. She texts me thereafter and tells me that she enjoyed herself, yadda yadda. We make arrangements to meet again.

In the interim, we exchange a few text messages. I neg her gently throughout and she responds quite positively most of the time. Although she's a bit absentminded and sometimes forgets to reply to text messages.

Encounter 4- We watch a rather slow-paced love movie. We have coffee before that but the conversation is a strain although I manage to enliven it with "who lies more" and a few negs. After the movie though, while queuing for a cab, the conversation takes an uplift because she somehow decides to make an effort, we click quite a bit. I make her qualify herself, yadda. We go to bar after that. We have a few drinks although we're not really drunk. I manage to hold her hand although she seems initially a bit hesitant at the start. I neg her like mad from the clothes to the hair, we do stuff like thumb-wrestling, etc. I also coldread her with the cube. When we leave, I ask her if she had a good time. She said yes. I said come here, and I kiss close. The thing is though, she seems a bit reluctant for she laughs thereafter. Nevertheless, we make arrangements to meet in the upcoming meet.

Just two things to note here. I genuinely like this girl, she's the closest thing I've had to a one-itis in sometime. The second thing is that this girl is a virgin in every sense of the word. She's never had a boyfriend before, so she's really inexperienced.

Anyone have any suggestions/comments on how I can take this forward? Cheers and thanks in advance.