Weekend 27 Feb - LAST TANGO IN LONDON
Me and PUA A met up by his in South London for one final big blowout before I left the country (I was due to leave3 days later). We hit the usual bar which was decently crowded. I’ve got my black fedora on. I’m kicking ass. I get a few compliments. Me and PUA A talk to a guy who has been drinking since 5 oclock, or for about 6 hours straight. He looks every inch of it. He rolls a cigarette, adding a bit of marijuana, asking us if “we minded”. He then starts talking/ranting about something that didn’t quite make sense. We laughed and I did my best to nod. This guy was amusing. Then PUA A got a call and went outside to meet his friend, J.
J was absolutely fucking mental.
Full on tattoos, pants sagging. I don’t know what he was on – but spent most of the night trying to figure out what it was. He was far too hyper for even just alcohol. Anyway, we met up with one of PUA A’s female friends right outside as we were leaving for another venue. He asked her a few questions – which she seemed quite hesitant to answer. He asked for her name, and she lied, causing PUA A to laugh his ass off.
Anyway we get to the second bar. We’re there for a bit, and the good looking chicks are starting to come in. PUA A goes and talks to a good looking black chick who was already talking to another guy – he’s got balls when he’s in the mood. Later outside he tells me he wants to test his game – he wants me to cockblock him as much as possible, see if he can get the girl. I tell him sure! We go in, but I don’t talk to his girl – instead I end up on the dancefloor, talking to a cute slim girl. I ask her for a drink of wine she had smuggled into the bar – she happily obliges. She’s tipsy. I ask her where her friends are – she points them out, and also mentions that her boyfriend is outside having a smoke.
Damn. I talk to her for a few minutes before he comes back in. I contemplate the minute chance of doing something with her, despite her boyfriend being there – but I have *some* moral code, and trying to tool boyfriends is outside of it. Boyfriend comes around, talks to her for a bit, he’s VERY drunk. I eject, looking for someone else. PUA A is talking to a redhead girl. She looks cute. I’m motivated to cockblock him as he suggested earlier. I stroll up, and we’re talking. After a few minutes, PUA A ejects. I talk to redhead girl for a while before J comes over. I go to the toilets and come back after a bit of a wait. We talk again. She tells me J has been trying to fight any guy who passes and gets too close to her. I figure that he’s also been trying to chat her up – all’s fair in love and war I suppose. He gets a bit too aggressive with another guy who passes by. I have to physically pull him away and hold him, trying to keep the mood light, asking why he’s fucking with all these dudes when there are good looking chicks here. He later goes to the opposite side of the room to talk to some guys he knows, leaving me alone with redhead girl. I work my magic. I’m attracted. She’s attracted. She offers to buy me a drink. I later return the favor.
PUA A shows up and suggests we bounce to another club, which redhead girl openly states that she hates, but comes anyway. I ask where J is – he’s disappeared somewhere. I’d lie if I said I wasn’t very relieved.
PUA A tries to hasten things by telling redhead that I’m leaving tomorrow – when I still have another three days left. A bit unnecessary, but PUA A is definitely trying to look out for my best interests. It’s amusing how people in the community are maligned, but we’re ordinary good guys.
We go to another bar, and PUA A pushes me to kiss close. I do, and I pull her up to dance. For the next half hour we dance close, kiss. There are dozens of people on the dancefloor, but for that period of time only me and her exist in the world. We talk, she tells me a million different things about her life, and I tell her about mine. I make sure to get her number, and send her a SPAM message.
The bar closes, and PUA A walks home while I follow her to hers. I ask her about coming in and chilling for a bit, which she declines with a slight smile. It’s ok. We had already arranged to meeting up that same night (it was now almost 7 am!!!!) I’d see her again for sure, so there was no need to rush things. Sometimes, it’s important NOT to push things, not to be too desperate, and just “let it happen”.
We did indeed meet up the following day.
CHAT