| Here is a sample field report of what happened last Saturday night:
I can't exactly remember everything from the beginning of the interaction. I went out with a few of my friends (including my sister) to a club in downtown LA. There was one girl who was drunk yet cute looking. When she saw me she put her hands on me and said hi to me and I said back to her "hey how's it going?" She said back to me "great, are u having fun?" Then, I was like "yeah, for sure!" Afterwards, she was trying to tell me something, but I couldn't makeout what she was saying because the particular area of the club that we were in made it difficult for us to hear each other. so that's when I grabbed her hand and said "come with me" and lead her to another part of the club that made it much easier for us to talk to each other. We sat next to each other on couches there and we talked for about for a min. before we actually madeout. Then, she asked what I want to which i said to her "well, I am getting tired, aren't u gonna take me home?" She was like "u want to come my place?" and I was like "yeah, let's get outta here" so I lead her out of the club. a few min. later, I asked who she came with to which she said that she came with her roommate." so I asked if she had let her roommate know that u left with me. So, she texted her roommate about that and then we kept walking together. A few min. afterwards, she said with a smile "u should go back there." But I resisted it by saying "why? My friends are okay with me leaving the club with u" She said with a smile that "u should just go back, because u r feeble." I was like " feeble?! (I flexed my arms) does this look feeble to u?" and so she complied with me. I also told her that "I just got my second black belt yesterday (which was true btw)" she was impressed with that. We then walked outside on the sidewalks for over a hour, getting to know each other, flirting with each other and kissing each other intermittently. She said to me that i was adorable, cute, and good looking. I even had her hand half way down my pants. Were outside for that long b/c she first took me to a house or apartment that was actually not her's, and then had me walking away and towards the place several times. She kept telling me that I could stay there, but I kept telling that its not my place and I thought that u were gonna take me home. So she was like "well, What do u want? man up." I said to her that i wanted her to take me home, but she smiled and said that she didn't feel like doing that. I was like "why not?" She said that she just didn't feel like it and that her place was a 15 min. drive away from where we were at. But I was like "so, what? I mean, what's really stopping u?" She then said that she just didn't fee like it. I sarcastically said "okay, well that's a really clear answer." She smiled again and said "I know right." Ultimately, she told me to put my number in my phone and then told me to put my number in her phone. She called my number and was able to see that her phone number she gave me was obviously not fake. Finally, she said that she would call me tomorrow or next week. And that was basically it for the night. The next day I called her in the afternoon, and I was able to reach her. She said " hello?" I said "Hi _______! This is Ross." She remember me and said "hi. Then there was a one second pause until she said "actually, can I call u back? I am at a work right now." So I said "sure" and that was basically the whole phone conversation. She then texted me about an hour later saying "haha. Sorry about that, I thought that u were my boss. The ______ area code threw me off. I won't be off for a while. So I texted her right away saying "lol. its cool." I got no contact from her few hours afterwards. So I decided to tex pt her again saying "let me know when u r free to talk." I still got no contact from her even through the next day (which was actually yesterday). So yesterday afternoon, I decided to text her one time by saying "hey! how's it going?" But I still have gotten no response.
So that's the whole field report of last Saturday night. All in all, I feel very disappoint because I really thought that we had connection, even though she was drunk and I was tipsy. So, if u could help me figure out what I did wrong I would really appreciate it. Thanks again
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