Hey everyone,

First time writing a field report. So i've been doing pick up for about 8 months, I'v had some bad nights, just this time it sorta effected me a bit for some reason, could be because I expected more and better from myself. So I decided to write my first field report.

I had a pretty relaxing day and decided to head out with a mate, even while I was driving there I could feel the pressure to have a good night, and I think this pressure really fucked me over. My mate was bit out of it as well, and didn't really help either, anyways walking around, I see soo many hot girls I want to approach, but something kept on holding me back, and finally when I managed to high five a girl that ended out a bit awkward, according to my mate I wasn't firm enough. I ended up doing one more approach but it was really half arsed and didn't go anywhere. I'v had amazing nights and I think that put pressure on myself to perform and I lost all the self amusement and fun I should'v been having.

I may-be wrong here, but I feel like my friend might be holding me back, he's so analytical about shit, so far I'v haven't seen him take action. He's always commenting on giving me "constructive criticism" on all my interactions with girls, not just when we go out and game which I kinda find off putting at times. last night he didn't really do much besides rub his negativity on me. I usually don't let others emotions or state effect me, but last night I guess it did. We both left after getting something to eat.

Anyways, apologies for a writing such a negative field report, but I thought it would be the best way to let out my feels and what not. Biggest mistake on my part was being stuck in my head and not taking action. Really need to force my self to stick to the 3 second rule.

Thanks for taking the time to read this
- The MH

No worries man it happens to everyone. I don't know of a single playboy who hasn't had a day or night when they went out and just didn't approach because of AA or whatever reason.

If you are feeling he is bringing you down when you go out, go out with others or go out alone.

Thanks dude, deffs might try doing solo

Give it a go. Also over time you might end up naturally getting to know other dudes when you're out who are like-minded and who will encourage you rather than the opposite.