Ok so the title got your attention.......

Anyway so we are on our second date i got a HB8 over my place and i set it up so we can cook dinner together and watch a movie. So after dinner etc etc we get to the movie blah blah blah i use my classic make out on the couch start kissing her pick her up bring her into the other room while making out still and clothes start to go. Anyway after the foreplay im thinking ok time to get at it and bam "I have something i didnt tell you" im still kissing her neck "ive never had sex before" and bam i lose my focus my next line was thats cool should i get a condom and she asked if we can wait i agreed and went for a lesser finish.

So my question is should i have pushed the envelope or just let it go like i did and save it for when shes ready?
feedback???

I would have pushed. "ok lets go slow".
I'd make it priority to go down on her but I probably would have kept the foreplay going for longer than usual when she told me it was her first time.

How old was she?

But if you do meet up again you're probably gonna fuck her. Even if its 3rd or 4th date (if you have the patients).

Once you get back to your place (how you managed to get it on day 2 - that's insane. I haven't managed that since I started...) I think it's up to you.

All the PUA's give you the tools you need to get from meeting -> sex. How you get there (ie time/pace) is up to you.

Just an example from real life: When I was in NOLA on vacation, I collected like 15+ phone numbers, and none of them turned into anything. My game was really weak, but I digress.

I had a wing, and kept trying to get him to approach women. The ONE time he finally did, he actually got further than I did.. He got to see her chest, but that was about it.. :/ His uni-focus yielded a greater result than my multi-focus.

Just goes to show it's really up to you. Depending on the type of woman you are dealing with, and the long term relationship potential, you could go either route.