Hello there,

I was inspired by a post from valleyplaya in which he chronicles his PUA adventures daily in a log. I encourage people to go see his post, it has a lot too learn from and reading these day to day you can see improvements and make notes for your own game.

So all I am going to be chronicling my PUA journey. I am still nervous with women,and get paralyzed by beautiful women... I have areas I want to improve, and hopefully logging it will help me gain some perspective and be able to focous better.

April 12,2014

So today I was suppose to have a date,from a girl that I managed to get a number from the other day. Texts her, she's working tonight aka picked up a shift, the other day when I grabbed the number from he I said "So if your busy Friday,maybe we can go out Saturday?". Well she agreed and ended up working.. so its Saturday and I say,screw this. I went to the library and was a complete loss today... First girl I scope out had a line ready...and I just didn't move, I was paralyzed. Second girl, a cute brunette sitting at a table by herself for like 10 minutes, I say ok in 15 minutes I'm going to talk to her, a girlfriend of hers shows up....15 minutes up,I go to the washroom in the other building, see another cutie by the buss station, and say ok. I'm going to talk to girl 2 at the library then go for the buss stop chick....the library girl is getting her stuff ready and takes off,quicker than I can get my things together to catch up to her. Also the buss stop girl is gone.

Review So today was not a fail, just part of the process. I have a new move, its called Pounce and Bounce which means I don't wait, I just Pounce, get what I want(at the least a number) and Bounce take off, with or without her.

Plans I plan on going back tomorrow, and I WILL get a number, and possibly a date for the night...

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" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

April 12,2014 Saturday Night


Alrighty, So last night had some beers with the roommate,we talked girls apparently some girl over at his house is paying his way; drinks cover etc. so lucky him, I asked if she had any friends, lol. Anyway he said something I already know,"the more you think about if all you do is psyque yourself out" the truth. All these sets and such just distract me, I can't do it, I just feel creepy...
We went down to the beer store and I grabbed a 6 pack and went home, he was going to meet this girl again, and apparently where he goes to party is just an animal house...not my thing,no matter how many girls there are. Anyway I stayed behind with my other roomate,his girlfriend,and his other friend playing video games...well they played video games, I drank and we had some laughs.
I ended up texting the Sarah girl that I grabbed a number from on Wednesday, she said "I get off work 11:30pm, well see how I feel" I knew it would be half a miracle if she wanted to hang at 11:30 for a first date . But I was also texting this Kielee girl at first I wasn't to sure if she was into it,she stayed business mostly, but then... "So did you ever notice me before the other day?" BAGGED! me "I noticed thoughts pink tips .".
So Shelby didn't show,but I did have fun joking around with the one roommate and his guests.

Lessons Learned- Don't text frequently,and then text frequently for one night. This will get immediate responses and you'll be on their mind in the mean time.


Sunday afternoon April 13th 2014

Went to the Library again today, I did do some studying but the reserve was bone dry, there where like no girls. There was one that I sat beside thought I wanted a number until I started talking to her...she was uber boring. I went to the back of the library, seen a girl with nice brown Chessnut hair, and!....choked,choked...like all I kept thinking was this is creeper style, I need to stop thinking and just jump. I then packed my things went home and worked out, now I'm feeling ready for tomorrow!

Lessons learned Don't think!, not even for a second, just calm down! and come from a place of power and authority, not insecurity and tricks....

Plans Tomorrow I will work out in the morning to spike my adrenaline, get two numbers and talk to a girl that's WAY out of my league!, this will be my self fulfilling prophecy.

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

Monday April 14th 2014
(Afternoon)

Not much to report today. I didn't work out, do plan on it tomorrow.
I did open two sets with girls today, sat next to one who wasn't having any of it, but another from across the isle was sitting there, and my new motto "I might regret this if I do it, but I WILLL regret it if I don't" so I pounced, went over and did my usual routine....

My routine.
ME "I have to be somewhere, but just wanted to ask you (fill in the blank)
HER "o well....bla,bla,"
ME comment on whatever she said
Her "yeah,bla bla"
ME "So alright I do have to take off,but maybe we should hang sometime can I get your number?"
Her "O yes compass, I love you and your magical PUA skills "

This isn't what happened its just my only trick right now. Turns out she lives wayyy out of town and has a boyfriend. I always make sure to say to this "O well~ wouldn't want to me him jelous huh?" and I stick out my tongue down and smile like a devil and take off.

Round two, ok see one sitting waiting for the buss, run the same lines, shes from my old town, but agiain has a boyfriend...I'm not interested, there's plenty of single willing women out there.

What I learned- I should pounce more, I mean I was Sarging/studying for like two hours, and only made 2 approaches, tomorrow I'm going for a higher frequency, EVERY girl that even grabs my attention a little will get a piece of my set.

Plans- I am going out this Friday, we have a bustling downtown and night game is way easier. Planning on wearing a red dress shirt,dress pants and belt with gold coloured front.

Lessons- Always pump yourself up before you go out, music ,talk in the mirror etc. it helps trust me

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

So Feeling pretty proud of myself, almost done reading THE GAME so be ready for my review and what I learned from it and how I've been applying it.

As a review after only about a week I'm fearless in talking to strange cute girls...and its paying off....

Tuesday April 15th 2014

1) Talked to HB8
So there's this really cute promotions rep(for the local Bar at the school) kinda giving off some reserved body language, I stop look her right in the eye,
Compass "You look a nervous?"
Her "no exams blah blah"
Me "so you have a date for this thing?"
Her "no, but I am going"
Me "so can I grab your number and see you tonight?"
Her"you can have my FB......"
Me "I'll take it..."

Lessons- If a girl offers her, fb please don't take it..its either Number or Nothing
Interpretation- The prettier a girl is the more BS tests you have to go through...uhg,

2) Small town girl
Trying to set something up with a girl who I grabbed her number from about a week ago,actually thought she gave me a fake number really cute small town girl. Anyway she says shes all freaked out about meeting a stranger blah blah.

Me "ok well, if you'r not too freaked out text me tomorrow for coffee between 12pm-4pm. Right now I'm going to delete your number, so if you don't get a hold of me I don't have your contact."

This was so smooth, I was very impressed, I applied the push pull routine flawlessly I think . Because she got a hold of me later that night with an explanation of how its not that she thinks I'm a creeper but needs to protect herself blah blah. Bagged!

3) Forget Japanese girls, its about Italian women
My main squeeze came over last night, shes a really generous lover, and a cool friend,plus shes not looking for a serious relationship either, this girl is so cool!. It was getting late and 11:30PM where both getting tired.
Me"You can stay here tonight I don't care" right after I said this just kep thinking stupid!,stupid,stupid!. If you let a girl stay the night you send the message you want a relationship...
Her "No, I refuse to sleep here"
Me thinking "omg your soo cool"

Wednesday April 16th 2014


1) Always be a friend first
So I get a hold of Small town girl, apparently she was in an accident today, a bumper flew off the guy in front of her, I consoled her (because I legitimately was glad she wasn't hurt). and now shes all over me to do coffee tomorrow maybe, idk if I want to go or not...I already have a coffee date with a girl from class tomorrow at 3pm..

2) What If I told you, I don't have a facebook?
Kept looking at a blonde today, got phyked out,went to the bathroom,came back she was still there so I walk over

Me with a confused intrigued look "do I know you?"...lame opener I know
Her Questioning look right back
Me "are you in fill in this course?"
Her "Yes," heres a note, as people you can create something called a yes ladder which is the more yesses you get the more yeses you will get, get it?.
Me" So whens last text blah blah"
Her" you know blah blah"
Me "where's home?"
Her" this place"
Me "blah blah, Well I have to meet a friend for a coffee(I actually did this time),can I grab your number?
Her points to screen, "How about my facebook?"
Me O not this again I don't think so "What if I told you I don't have a facebook?"
Her complete shock mouth wide open, "who doesn't have a facebook?"
Me "guys who are trying to get numbers...so?"
Her "ok"
Bagged!



Lessons- Always try to talk to girls because you will ALWAYS gain something from it, and experience is invaluable.

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

Sun April 20 2014


Sarging= no drinking

enough said,

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

Saturday April 26,2014



So last weekend actually wasn't all that bad,just I was too drunk to make any of my game work, but I had girls approaching ME!. wtf?.... I was calm and collected,but not smooth. So short version, talked to ALOT of HB6/7.

This weekend was...different,lol its Friday in April so not too many gals yet, last night me and my friend went out again we ended up at a pool hall and the hottest girl there was again making comments on what I was saying. We where playing pool and I made a comment about my ex girlfriend and this girl said "thats why shes your ex!" DEFINITE IOI and what do I say? "I hate it when the girls, are more witty then me " she smiled and liked it my friends all over her like fly on sh** and shes having non of it...

We went to a cool club he gets free cover, I opened 3 sets all PIC FAIL, I need scripted material, or at least in idea.Don't go in with nothing guys. Me and my friend are outside he says "Don't talk to club girls man, just start dancing with them!". OK So I do I actually start dancing with a girl like immediately, again hes all over her, I let him cause it was her friend I wanted, these three leave the bar. and I find out why HE dossen't talk to these grils.

Friend"You friend looks pretty drunk there,how many she had?"
HB5 "She hasn't hardly had any :/"
Friend argues with her...
Me: "Its cause though high heels are like 7 inches, how much hight you get off toughs things?
ALL OF HER FRIENDS IMMEDIATLY LOOK AT ME
Friend breaks in with more stupid bull^%$% about how much she drinks.
me: as my friend talks over me the whole time "I was going to wear mine tonight but they don't fit me anymore, they might look good on you".

This is why he doesn't talk to women, then he tell me how I wassne't going anywhere with them...
Me "no doubt man,no doubt"

We wen't back to the pool hall and the HB8 is kissing some dude...FML, we walk home and he tells me how to do life.

Lessons:
Club girls can only talk outside
Club girls just want you to start dancing with them
Don't forget The Game (When I lost that girl at the pool hall) people say, just go out have fun, forget about women..sorry that's not me, when I stop thinking about women. I can't see the HB8 that wants me...
You don't need a wingman

Plans
Going Sarging solo tonight, my friend will be downtown later and can get me into that sweet club cover free. Hopefully I don't feel like a lonely man wish me luck Brothers, Ima make you proud!.

PS. Finally got a date from 1/5 numbers I grabed before school was out. lots of kino and talking but we hung in her car for a while, I actually made her really emotional when I did "the cube" game with her...its got some power if you do it right. but I wish I asked her if she wanted to kiss me.... next time .

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

So last night, had a couple of drinks and my friend was going to the school res to hang with some people...not my scene, so I went to Kareokee MY MYSELF. Sang "Where everybody knows your name" lol and a table of girls where all shouting my name. I sat down finished my drink and went to catch the buss, the damn buss was like 7 mins early...so I missed my buss,and wasn't going back to the bar.
There was an older red head like lazer eyeing me... I should have went over and said hi.

Lessons
Always make at least one approach EVERYWHERE!
Show up early for the buss
Going out alone does not make you a loser!( got over my lone wolf syndrome!, I actually enjoyed myself)
For me always make Goals for the night

Plans
If I'm off work next Saturday, I'm going downtown early like 7pm-11:30pm (and going to catch the buss)

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

Thursday May 1st 2014,


So starting a new job Saturday,should be fun.
But for the girls!. Wow, I had to go out and grab some things,do some errands, etc. and thinking back when I got home there where three approaches I should have made.

1. I was in a D&D like store(grabbing regular dice...) and saw a real cutie, wearing the black get up and whatever, checking out posters.

2.A nice red head in a department store looking at art supplies, every time I went to a new isle, she would be right there,

3. lol, I'm kinda embarrassed in this one, the Dollar store cashier. She gave me the biggest grin and actually curtsied slightly during the exchange.

So I wasn't expecting to get numbers or lay any of these girls, but I do get home and wonder,what if I just flirted with these girls? how much larger my circle would be?.

Lessons
1. If your looking for a place to find girls during the summer, try the various malls and niche shops.
2. You put WAY too much pressure on yourself when you TRY to get numbers, just flirt, its legal, and most girls appreciate it .
3. If there's a girl remotely making the spidy sense go off, jump!

Plans
I plan on going to the mall tomorrow to try my new found flirting abilities .
2. Also have to keep in mind that its MYSELF I have to enjoy first.

_________________
" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

Good posts, dude. I agree with your lessons listed.