Last Sat I went out w/ my friend and her friend. Me and her hooked up for the first time a day before that. So this night I figured it was gonna be my chance to f-close. The first night we were drinking so I didn't know if she regretted it or not. So I didn't want to just expect the same thing to happen. But sure enough we picked up where we left off.

We went to a club and drank and danced and it went really well. On the dance floor she had taken my hands and moved them close to her inner thighs. which would seem like a sign of a definite f-close. After hours we went back to her place. After my friend decided to leave us I thought I would be able to close the deal. We were sitting on the couch together and I tried to go for it. It was 4 in the morning and she stated she was tired and wanted to sleep. So I pull back and tell her I agree. I fall asleep with her on the couch in her living room. She wakes me up and tells me to go sleep with her in her bed. She could have just left me to sleep on her couch.

We fall asleep, then wake up the next morn. Its still early and we both are tired so we go back to bed. She then says she is hot and takes her top off and gets back in bed. I then try for a second time to close but am stopped at first base. So I back off again. We go to sleep for another 4 hours and wake up like at 12 noon. Now I am irritated because she is clearly being a tease. Shes doing one thing and saying another. Then she explains how she needs to clean and I should help her. She also has a desk she bought and asks me if I could help her put it together. I tell her "I can't" thinking its an obvious DLV. At this point I am pissed that at how she has been a cock tease. I say one sentence that essentially kills any chance I have with. Letting my frustration take over i say "You shouldn't have let me stay the night if your not gonna put out." Her face is disgusted with my remark and she replies with "Im not going to even respond to that" After this I decide I should leave.

She drops me off to where my car is parked at my friends house. Seeing the mistake I've made I try to do some damage control and apologize. It does little help so when we get to my car I just bail. I tried one last time to apologize in a text mail that night hoping by then she has cooled off. She responds with "what happened, happened lets just be friends" OuCH! I know I made the mistake of not pushing when we became physical. Which might have helped f-close. Is there anything I can do to get back right with her?? I think I might just be assed out. I would appreciate any advice or suggestions ThanKs

Um, i would probably just move on. You had flipped on all of her attraction switches the previous night. Saying that completely flipped them all off. I have no idea how you could make it up to her. If you were in a relationship for a bit and said something kinda nasty, it could be slavagable. But if ya'll just started dating, i would just chalk this one up to a tough learning experience.

Lol yeah that ones done for.

You should concentrate on why you couldn't close her in bed, so you can take care of business next time.

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LOL that was a burn dude. Seriously tho i'd forget about this girl. I mean you did everything right in the lead up and she kept teasing. If you're a pua u don't have time for this lol. I almost agree with you saying she should have put out. Maybe next time say it a little more playfully so it's not a direct insult. Deff don't help her clean up and shit especially if you didn't get any. I agree with the last post too, maybe concentrate on why you didn't f-close and chalk it up to a learning experience.

Cheers

Yeah thats pretty much what I figured it would be. I thought it would be a good story to share. I told my friend and we both laughed about it. I know I messed up when things started to escalate physically and I didn't push so that I could be the one that sets the pace. But besides that im not sure what I could have done differently. At least if I can figure out what I did wrong it won't be a total loss. The girl was maybe a six, so im not sweating it. She was the one that initiated kino and she gave me her number when I never even asked her for it. So she was the aggressor. But I think she was just trying to string me along and use me as her tool when she brought up helping her put together a desk. Theres nothing worse than a C-Tease. For me to put in all that work and get stopped at the 1 yard line sucks. The only problem is she is a good friend of my best friend so I will eventually have to run into her again. So how should I play it when that happens, probably in the near future.