Hello there! My name is Paweł (Paul) and I live in Poland (Gdańsk to be precise). After recovering from a very long LTR (3.5 year), I've decided to get back to the game (I've been recovering for quite some time, I believe 2 years or so I was avoiding women). I've discovered, that there is a lot to repair in my inner game and I began to work on it very hard. This is also a part of my personal transformation - I wish to become a successful person in every dimension of existence. I've set my goals and been moving forward very quickly so far, but obviously there is a lot to improve.

I hope I could use some of your experiences to build up an image of me I dream of. I also apologize for any language mistakes, though I hope my english is preety decent, it's still not my natural language

Long story short - I'll be mixing my reports from DG and NG in this thread - to keep things in one place. I'll try to include as many details as possible while keeping everything readable and compressed.

I started gaming after reading following books:

S. Covey - 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - helped me realise how important is to listen
N. Hill - Think And Grow Rich - reminded me of how the universe works. Also helped me to realise, that sexual energy and true desire are important in becoming a successful person
D. Carnegie - How to win friends & Influence People - this book I find really amazing, helped me a lot with my inner game; reminded me how important is to smile and be more interested in what people are actually saying.

Next on my shelf is The Game, though many people been saying bad words about it. Perhaps someone could suggest me something even better for strict PUA purposes?

Alright, so here's my first report.

Night game #1: 24.01.14

I took my friend Kuba (Jacob) for some casual beers to the city. He is a complete AFC, though I believe he is a little more 'manly' in terms of looks and cold behaviour. Me, I'm more like a warm and fooling around type of guy. It helps with initial impression, but I sometimes commit myself too much. Well anyway, we had our first beer, talked a little. There were girls in a neighbouring lounge, one HB5 and one HB6; they were with a guy that left them. I felt like they were counting on us that we engage, but I didn't feel like it. We suggested loudly that we're changing pub to another hoping they will hear it and follow us, but apparently they didnt.

Next place was quite crowded, filled with UBs. We ordered beers and tried to look around. We got engaged into discussion with a bum. We talked with him a little bit (turns out he used to be a doctor in physics), I was scanning the place in a meantime. I've noticed two mediocre HB5-6s sitting just nearby. It felt like they were listening to our discussion with the bum guy. It ended with us pussying out the club and moving on to another.

The third place was much better, though I believe we were a little too picky with girls. There were two easy HB6s sitting somewhere alone, but we figured out we can approach them any time (to be fair, we were quite scared even to that). We had another beer, ignored a few relatively good sets (some had HB8s in - just because our confidence wasn't high enough). We were about to leave when suddenly two girls, HB7s appeared in front of me, I don't even know when but I started a conversation. Yeah, finally. Well anyway, we chatted nicely, I made a lot of EC, a lot of push and pull. When they went to the bathroom we split them between us. After they came back we had some more chatting (I didn't do much kino sadly); the girl I was talking to decided they have to go because she has train to catch (like metro), we tried to keep them but she was quite decided about that. We suggested we have pizza in Kuba's place but that didn't have any effect. They went to bathroom again and Kuba said we go out and see what happens. I said why not so we left the pub and waited for them outside. They went out of the bathroom, looked around. Stood near the doors (inside) for some time and then left. We said goodbye to each other and they went back. We decided to go home too.

Well anyway, we found both of them on facebook. I came chatting with my HB7, she said something like if I'm photographer because the other HB wants some photos but she's too shy. I was like alright, but I wanted her so I started to escalate a bit about boudoir photos, it went suprsingly well and she agreed to meet me again, we set up a date (a meeting with her gloves actually) and she seemed really up to me. The next day however, she apologized and she said that she doesn't want to meet and she should had said that earlier. I was like no problem, if you change your mind one day please let me know.

That's preety much it, about my first time. To recap:

- We've missed couple of openable sets because I wasn't confident (explaining myself they werent nice enough.). I definetly should start opening sets even if the girls aren't that adorable.
- I think those beers weren't very helpful. I felt like girls put their shields higher when they see that our vision is blurred.
- Next night game I definetely want to have more approaches. I feel like it is going to be easier next time.

Day Game #1 28.01.14

Today I tried going alone to the mall. I went to do some shopping and eat, and hoped I'll get confidence to approach some girls in the meantime. My opener was something like "Hey, this might be a little crazy, I just think that you are very cute and I wish you a great day!" or "Hey, I already know that your smile is adorable, and I want to know about other things. What's your name?". Unfortunetly, I pussied out and did no approaches. There were quite some good sets around, some HB8s roaming alone. I'm very mad at myself for not doing anything. I consciously know that there is absolutely no reason not to try and whatever I'm doing is only going to look good in their eyes - and yet my body wouldn't move. Many excuses pop in my head, again the most common one was "not worth it". So it ended with some ECs and nothing beyond.

Not until I went to baby store to buy a blowing pear for camera cleaning purposes. I got accidentally opened by some 50-60s YO coguar after being very nice and open. She told my her name and said she is also interested in photography, making some fancy subtext rolling on. I've of course kindly thanked for her help with the pear and left the shop in haste.

However, the experience with that lady helped me to realise, that my attitude is right. I believe I naturally gamed her into that, just by being nice, warm and looking her deeply in the eyes (however funny it sounds, considering her age). I think, if I'm able to pull that off on a proper HB, it might yeld some interesting results.

Overally though, I'm dissapointed of myself. Perhaps next time I'll have more courage to step in.

I feel like it is connected with my looks. I look much younger than I am and my hair looks like Biebers'. That means people usually think I'm a kid, which attracts only jailbaits I try to avoid. I could however try to turn that around into sweetness, but that's not something I wish to become - I'd rather like to become more manly. Hairdresser is the way to go. I hope it boosts my confidence next time.