After walking out of the club with some of the guys I just couldn't fight it any longer, I had to let the cheshire cat out of the bag; and for the next 15 minutes or so you couldn't have forced a bigger smile on my face without the use of botox- in lamens terms, I had a fucking awesome night.
CasanovaCrewOC members in attendance:
Jack
Status66
Jackett
Dreopergone
Basic
King Kong and 3 friends
CCoriginal gangsters in attendance:
Lucky31337 and date who forgot ID and had to leave
Also met up with the
Magic Nuggets Crew who were 5 deep that night
After an epic crew meeting this week including some harsh but needed constructive criticism for all, we decided collectively as a crew to plow and close much more consistently.
For some reason or another people always get the impression from me that I am much more experienced in the field then I actually am; which I have only recently figured out that it has been extremely detrimental to my self confidence/inner game, whatever you want to call it. I get the impression from some that they think I should be retiring soon and collecting my pension but frankly, that just isn't the case. It is much easier to live in your mind then to live in the world and inevitably fail; and with my perfect image of myself being perpetuated by everyone I met, it made it that much harder to shatter and be honest with myself. In the end I realized that placing yourself on a pedastool is a dangerous place to be and it forces you to live in a reality that is misconstrued and unproductive.
Tonight I was going to work on a few things being:
A) Try to do 1 of 3 things with every legitimate set
1- isolate
2- number close
3- kiss close
B) Get out of my comfort zone and plow on my first thought of ejecting or being blownout
C) Have a great time with the guys but don't use it as a crutch to not have a fun time meeting new people
This week has been rather eye opening for me with my motorcycle accident, conversations had with friends/other positive lifestyle advocates, and the eventful weekly meeting stating what I already knew about myself, so tonight I was feeling somewhat different then normal- as it turns out in a good way. I decided that since Mantis wasn't going to roll out with us for the night it would only be necessary that one of us wears a scarf in order to honor his recent successes haha. So as I donned my scarf that I swear to God turns from green to black when I'm not looking and my guitar t-shirt from targe.t I looked in the mirror and caught a different side of myself, and it was on.
Withing the first 30 minutes of getting into the club I opened a good 6 or 7 sets and got opened twice. The first time by a sexymama because of my sexy scarf and the second time because of my sexy dance moves who unfortunately later turned into my scary scenester stalker.
These first few sets were mainly to help get me into a more social attitude and I believe I only had a target in one of the sets who we will call HBanastasia who was super cute and a girl who I ended up reopening a few times throughout the night
HBanastasia
Jack: [as walking towards the indoor smoking patio (haha) I touched the back of the girls shirt so she would turn around]
HBanastasia: yeah?
Jack: What the hell does your shirt mean? (said with a smile, it said something like "hoeCB" or something and was curious why this girl was advertising her hoeness for all to see)
HBanastasia: It's russian...
Jack: Ahh, Babushka. haha
HBanastasia: Haha did you just say Babushka?
Jack: Yeah, thats like a furry hat right?
Basically this conversation ended once her friends came and I decided to head over to my friends and have a smoke break. I needed to plow and this was going to be the motivation for me for the rest of the night to do just that after I realized how hooked she was and how we both just went our separate ways.
Later that night I see her at the smoking patio again and I reopened her. We were talking and all of a sudden I ejected and returned back to my friends, although it wasn't an awkward break. I heard one word, plow, and made no excuses and went right back to her and had a good conversation. We parted ways again, fuck- I didn't isolate or close a legitimate target, I gotta find her later...
After a couple good dancing sessions, 15-20 more sets (8 or so being very solid reopenable[which i did] sets) or so and nearing the end of the night I was standing on the dance floor looking for someone when I hear
]HBanastasia: Why aren't you dancing? (with a slightly seductive smile)
Jack: (no words needed be said so I just started dancing with her)
Unfortunately, however, she was dancing with her as it turns out gay friend and we had to sandwhich her for a song or two before i broke free to find someone else to dance with ebcause im not a real big fan of sharing. But she grabbed my hand and told me to come with her and the three of us went to the smoking patio again and we started chatting it up. She got a text from a guy who she adamantly refused was her boyfriend even though her gay friend said it kinda was so I knew what she was saying. I ended up getting her number as Jackett told us we were leaving a couple minutes before and I headed out. I made sure to text her that night so my number was in her phone
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Jack: Stop drama texting and put your phone away (i grabbed her phone on the dance floor when I first saw her and put her phone in my pocket and told her theres no drama texting allowed and thought it was a decent thing to open up with)
HBanastasia: Lol don't leave!
Jack: Too late. You forgot its my bed time haha (I told her it was my bedtime which is why i had to go once i rounded up all my friends)
HBanastasia: Haha well it is not mine haha sweet dreams
Conclusion:
1) First #close in a club
some of you might find that surprising but its true, I never really went for the #close at clubs, usually just a day game thing, but I think it was an excuse to not shatter my mental image.
HBscarfbuddy
HBscarfbuddy was KingKongs incredibly cute asian social circle friend and I was very happy that he brought her along because she was not a target for him as he made clear. I had really fun banter conversation with her, performing scandalous moves with the scarf to each other, calling her my stalker, protecting her from stalker boys and having her protecting me from stalker girls (which I really had that night lol x2- thanks for the social proof crazy psycho bitches). We ended up on the dance floor as a group and we were taking pictures when she comes up to me and tells her friend to take a picture of me and her. Without thinking I pull a Casanova Picture Pickup and take a fun picture with her in my arms in the middle of the dance floor. Never done that myself, its always either been someone else's idea or a girl has been dropped in my arms (which happens a lot when hanging out with Lucky31337 lol).
Conclusion:
1) Able to build solid slow attraction and comfort with HBscarfbuddy where if I were to see her again, which definitely will happen, I can go for the k-close at least.
2) Initiated the Casanova Picture Pickup (CPP) by myself for the first time and she fuckin' loved it
HBbraces
I don't think I have ever been attracted to someone with braces as much as this girl. I was with Status66 at the bar right after getting off the dance floor when he tells me to open up the set right next to me. Shit, I didn't even see her- boom- i go in.
I ended up getting her really hook, I made her smile a lot and she was blushing like crazy. I noticed she had braces when she would put her hand in front of her mouth when she would smile every 2 seconds.
I stop talking to her because she seemed so shy and i say something back to status66. He doens't even respond to me but says plow, plow, plow, keep talking, plow and I turn right back around. Thanks
I tried to get a water a minute ago and got shot down. I tell her about this and how if I was a girl I would be able to put on my sexy face or whatever I forget what i said and get a water for free. I tell her that she has to go on a mission to get me a water. She says that she can't do it right here becasue it is a girl bartender and that it won't work so I instantly grab her hand and take her to another bar and she complies very willingly. She gets me a water as I am standing next to her, back against the bar, like its all super secret agent shit or whatever. Its fun the glances we are shooting back and forth as if we are about to rob a damn bank and it was really fun. She ends up getting me the water and we head back to where we were when she sees her brother. He grabs her by the hand and I AFC react and just tell her, hey thanks for the water I gotta go get back to my friends I'll see you later instead of befriending the brother.
Meanwhile, Status66 opens her and DHVs me while I am with hbscarfbuddy and random sets throughout the night and she blushes again he said so he tells me we have to find her so he can distract the obstacles and I can close
We find her a good 45 minutes later and I am on the dancefloor. All of a sudden I hear this: omg I know you! (in a slightly drunk tone). She runs over towards me and puts her arms around me and starts to dance with me. Her friends are trying to get her to leave so i #close her on the dance floor and push her towards her friends which she seemed very unwilling to go to.
So I texted her today and this is how it went
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Jack: Thanks for the water last night
HBbraces: whose this
Jack: You mean I wasn't the only guy you got a water for at the club?
HBbraces: oh, i remember now lol. ur welcome
Jack: I'm guessing its pretty much the only thing you remember from the night based on how drunk I saw you a little bit later lol
HBbraces: lol yeah i got fuuucked up haha
Jack: Understatement of the century lol. I almost had to scissor kick you in the face in order to get you off the dance floor to go home with your friends lol
And I didn't get a response from her lol. Guess I shouldn't tell a girl I almost kicked them in the face the night before, might be sending the wrong signal... lol. Any suggestions as to what I should do? plow or call it quits
Conclusion:
1) 2nd club #close
2) Plow for the win
3) First time I isolated a chick like that
Overall, I opened the most sets I ever opened in a club which turned out to be about 20 sets and I got opened a good 6 or 7 times making the number even higher. Got my first and second #close in the club. Did my first CPP and isolation that soon.
Good night
CHAT
