so this is my first field report! me and my buddy decided to go out to westgate in glendale, arizona (its a place with a few bars/clubs really close to each other so its easy to bar hop, all you do is walk to the next place over) and have a few beers. didnt really make any plans/goals to pick any girls up at first. it was pretty much just "go out, have fun and see what happens." first place we went to was mcfaddens - an irish pub. it was pretty packed but we found a place at the bar and ordered some beers. we saw two girls that looked like they were sisters that kept looking over at us. didnt see any IOI's like running their fingers thru their hair or anything. even without that i felt like i should have approached but i kept making excuses for myself... they sat there for a little bit and left to join a bigger group of people. shortly after me and my buddy left that place and went to another one that was a bar/club. it wasnt as packed as the previous venue. at this point we agreed that we should probably find some girls to talk to and not be fuckin pussies. we walked in, scanned the bar and didnt find anything too interesting except for this one black girl with her friend. i never was into black girls before but this one was smoking hot, probably HB 7.5 or hb8. we sat close to them - left one seat in between them and us. the minute we sat down my buddy went to the restroom and i was left alone. then i felt a hand on my shoulder. i turned around and it was the black girl opening me!! we talked for a bit, her friend got involved in the convo then my buddy came back and joined us. the entire time she had her hand on either my lap, shoulder, my hand, leaning into me to talk. she was really into me!! i couldnt believe it and like i said she was smoking hot and i never was into black girls. turned out shes 7 years older than me, too. after about 30 minutes of convo - mostly my buddy and them and i chimed in as much as i could - im so bad at talking to new people, i need to improve my mid game - my buddy decided to go to the dancefloor which was filling up pretty quick by now. i hung around for a while, couldnt think of anything to say, like a chump, so told the girls that im gonna go join him. that was it with those two girls for now but i will come back to it later on because we interacted again later.

at the dancefloor i felt like everyone was looking at me, it was hard to dance because i was never good at it. im usually the guy standing on the side too chickenshit to do anything unless im hammered and just dont give a fuck. i got a beer at the bar and just thought to myself "fuck it, im always doing the same shit and it never gets me anywhere." i tried not to get too drunk but loosened up a little and just went for it and started dancing around with my buddy close by. we kept bumping into girls with our asses, almost like twerking. it was fun as shit because it got the girls laughing and dancing with us. that was our non verbal "opener." we even did a train with 6 girls and us inbetween all of them! it was a blast!! after a lot of people got familiar with us, some girls would just come up to us and opened us. i couldnt believe it! were we both alpha males at that time or some shit?! at that point my confidence shot straight up. then out of nowhere some blonde chick (hb9 in my eyes) comes up to me and my buddy and gives us both the finger, right to our faces!!! i was like "wtf is her deal?!" she had a bit of a smile on her face so i grabbed her and my friend grabbed her friend and we started dancing with them. she was all over me! then after a few songs they both started getting away and started walking towards the bar. then the blonde chick turns around and sticks her arm out and gives me the finger again but this time she pushes it into my face!! lol i told her "youre lucky youre so fuckin hot!!" i grabbed her again and went back to dancing. this time i got closer to her and did some light kino. held her hands, when she wasnt facing me i ran my lips around her neck and ear (i read somewhere those spots are pleasurable for women??). when she turned around i went for the makeout, she didnt really kiss back so it wasnt good but what the fuck at least i went for it. so then i asked for her name and number and had her put it in my phone. she went with it!! then when she was walking away i grabbed her hand and pulled her back in and started going for another makeout again but this time she kissed back! it was great!!! I FELT LIKE A GOD BY NOW!!!! after that i left her and went around dancing with other girls...

now back to the black girl. as i was dancing with some other girls and my buddy there we saw the black girl with her friend again (its been like 3-4 hours since we met and i left them, turned out they were bar hopping). my buddy tries to invite them in to dance with us but they say "no way, we cant dance, bla bla bla." i just went for it and grabbed her hand and pulled her in we got close!! it was nothing like the other girls that were around all night. no grinding, nothing like that. we both got close and kinda slow danced - with club/hip hop music playing haha. it was probably the most intimate dance ive ever had. heavy kino from both me and her, no boob grabs tho. she really knew where to put her hands on my body, i felt like i was charged with good energy. im not saying that im falling in love... i got a lap dance from a stripper a couple weeks back and experienced the same thing when she ran her hand up and down my stomach. it just felt good thats all. we talked a little and she asked what my plans were for the next day... i kinda steered away from meeting up the next day and told her that my brother is in town on his military leave and its his last weekend home so i gotta spend time with him. i wasnt lying either. we exchanged numbers, she told me that if we dont see each other next week then i should text her. i thought to myself "fuck it, whats the worst thing that can happen?' didnt answer her question and WENT FOR THE MAKEOUT!!! thats two kiss/number closes for me that night and i was almost sober by then - ive never done it like that before!! the only bad thing (could be a good thing depending on how you look at it, ill be able to tell with time i guess) is that the blonde i made out with and number closed earlier was walking right by and saw me with the black girl, being close and exchanging phone numbers. she could have possibly have seen us making out too - i have no idea lol oh well, plenty of fish in the sea right?

by that time it was already like 1 or 1:30am so we left.. ill text both the girls sometime soon. probably the blonde hb9 first, shes hotter!! if you guys have any pointers for me that would be great. especially on mid game and keeping a conversation going, i think thats my worst weakness. i might be going out again soon, too. going for it and getting results is so much fun!!