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 Post subject: Duck Duck Goose
PostPosted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 12:30 am 
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So It all started back Last Year I met this girl (HB7), HB7 was very nice but this was all before i knew a damn thing about pickup. I instantly got attached. Through the next months i was just this clingy dude who texted this girl nonstop. I tried to help her any way i could and She at one point may have liked me. Yet the strange part was i was petrified to even talk to her in person So all we did was text. Either way she realized i was just coward and ended up just wanting to be friends. So after being crushed for the next 2 weeks I was with her and had a fun conversation with her and i thought great I got a chance. So I started texted her nonstop again then she told me again she just wanted to be friends. So At this point i end up stopping all contact with her and I just was in the dumps.
So One Night I thought to myself meh I guess ill type in google how to pick up girls not like I will find anything. Yet I was wrong I found a plethora of information. I started watching guys like simple pickup and Julian from real social dynamics. I started reading numerous articles on how to attract woman. So I thought man I can do this! So I went out to approach and completely froze with approach anxiety. So i Spent a good 8 months trying to approach a girl and I literally couldn't do it.
So I ended up waiting until senior year thinking Senior year will be my year of change Well I spent the first 2 months not taking any action what so ever. Then Came 1 month ago I finally mustered the confidence to approach a girl and everything went alright despite the fact i did not get a number but I figured i got the first one out of the way I will be fine I will start approaching like crazy now. The problem though was I couldn't I still was crippled by this fear. So This past week I told myself i got to do something well again like usual I did nothing until yesterday. I suggested to the group of buddies i was sitting with at study to play truth or dare So at the end of study my friend dared me to go to a table of hot girls and play duck duck goose yet i froze again but i told my friends hold me to doing it tomorrow. So came today I kept telling myself i could do it yet I was frozen in fear. Today though i had this girl at our table who i will admit is a tad bit strange but she was telling me Who cares just do it. So I ended up just going out there and doing it in all reality they all thought i was some weirdo probably but who cares? haha I was able to embarrass myself enough to try to get over this irrational fear! So anyways this will be my field report thread obviously my updates won't be as long as this but I would like to hear from you guys suggestions on how i should work my way out of approach anxiety and into being the guy I want to be and be able to approach woman WHEN I want because I Want to!
Thanks Guys!


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 Post subject: Re: Duck Duck Goose
PostPosted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 2:09 pm 
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Try style's 30 day challenge, thats what I'm doing and it's working wonders.


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 Post subject: Re: Duck Duck Goose
PostPosted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 10:32 pm 
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Overcoming AA for the first time is the most difficult thing in pickup. It's different for every guy, but eventually the guy realizes in his mind that the risk it takes to not branch out is worse than the risk it takes to be who you really are and to live the life you want.


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 Post subject: Re: Duck Duck Goose
PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 11:59 pm 
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Hey Guys I have been working on trying to get across another approach and it has been tough but i have gotten some success. I am very comfortable in my computer tools in business class and certainty these past weeks i have gotten myself out there. I have alot of buddies in this class. There's this HB9.5 who sits on the other side of the room (in this class a bunch of my buddies will just randomly sing and dance to the radio like nuts haha) So i decided I would sit on the other side of the room (my friend Dan also sits on this side of the room) to get to know the HB9.5 we had a nice conversation and I seemed to easily get her number (my first number close). She mentioned to me how her mom's boss had her car keyed so He could get money from the car company. So I ended up texting"Yo her that night saying "Yo HB9.5 this is kevin think if i had someone key my truck i could get it repainted for free? haha" as a joke, I ended up not getting a text back. How should i approach this situation from this point on? (I won't see her until Tuesday because that would be the next time i have that class!)
Thanks guys!


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