Let me keep this short. I met this 22 yrs old black girl with an tough athletic body and an average face in a cafe in my school campus. Number closed her instantly and then took her out for ice tea a few days later. She was pretty shy for a college girl of her age who is in a sorority in a party school. Literally I had to keep the conversation going with all my crazy adventure stories. A week later we met again for a coffee in campus and she was now talking to me without being shy. A beer on the third date after a few more days and then I met her yesterday afternoon again for coffee. Just minimal touching a few times without trying to be seductive (or anything similar) on the 2nd and 3rd date and absolutely no kino at all.

Anyway after the coffee yesterday I offered to driver her to her apartment which was like a mile outside the campus. Dropped her off and just a peck on her lips before coming back to my lab. I was fucking tired as hell due to lack of sleep the night before and had worked my butt off since 6 in the morning before meeting her. She had mentioned that she was going to take a nap. Texted her saying that nobody else was in the lab and she advised me to take a nap in the lab. Told her that it was not an option and she either had to keep me entertained by texting or had to share her bed for me to take a nap as well. Drove back to her apartments, went to her bedroom and laid down on her bed. Talked to her a few minutes, kissed her, took her clothes off, a little foreplay and fucked her!

The problem is I could not get her to cum. I cummed before she reached her orgasm and I just could not get it up again despite my best attempts. She said that it was okay but I knew that she wanted to orgasm pretty bad. Now that I have fuck closed her, my idea is to get her to go swinging with me. She told me that she wants sex as she will be in the area only for one more semester and is not seeking a relationship. And that is what I want. She said she wants to have sex with a girl (never done it before). Not sure if she would be interested in a threesome (would be great if she wants but I haven't asked her). My plan is to have sex with her again, make her cum this time and then to plant the idea of adopting a swingers' lifestyle as an adventure.

I think I will have a chance at getting her to go swinging as long as I can make her cum in the next few times I have sex with her, but I don't want to blow it. I know that now I need to play my cards right. I have never done it before and hence I have no idea how to bring it up and convince the girl.

In the past your advice have really helped me improve my inner and outer game. And I will appreciate your advice that you have on this as well.

Thank you in advance!

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"The winner is the chef who takes the same ingredients as everyone else and produces the best results." ---- Edward de Bono

You have a couple more tools up your sleeve: your fingers and your mouth. They can work wonders to make a girl cum if that's your goal

Sure, you came and need a break before you can go at it again. But your fingers don't. And so doesn't your mouth.

Next time it happens to you, act aloof. Yeah, I came. Cool. Then finger her do oral on her. Without justifying yourself for cumming or anything.

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)