Wow where do I start, I asked for help August 20th for closing a girl with a boyfriend. I'll be honest I should have had a one on one date a long time ago but I figured I needed to build more comfort and all I could really rely on was on group dates.(bear in mind I have only seen her 3 times in two months that I have been working on her,but she never mentioned her bf around me) The thing that helped me a lot in my opinion was text game, I must have told her like 5-6 routines, and also reframing the conversation in my power for example she ask me a question I dont answer it but say something more interesting that catches her attention, this was in the beginning. Dont get me wrong there would be times where she would not text back for a day or two, and I so wanted to text her but I listened to the text game rules: Text intruiguing things, never fall back on small talk unless you ran one of your routines and you hit a hook point... For example she asked hows it going at work? i said can you imagine me at work without a shirt, baby oil on my body and lifting a big piece of lumber thats how work is going.. This painted a picture in her head whether she liked or not and plus your being funny and outgoing obviously it all depends on the girl how far you can push your sexual comments to her.. her response was Edgar!!! what an image you have given me.. sounds like a fun workplace.. That kind of conversation worked on this girl, there would be times of rapport building questions but all in all there was alot of attraction routines.. Also I think what helped me out a lot was when I dropped the subtle hint that I was dating other girls.. I said random question me and my friend are having a debate.. who do you think would win in a fight superman or thor..my friends says thor because she says hes hot and has a hammer ..i say superman because hes the man of steel... 2nd point in text game always take as long as she takes and more time to text her back.. for example this last text i told her I was going salsa dancing and said you should come with she texted me back a day later... your going salsa dancing on thursday... I didnt text back till today 2 days later...lets go...I think this is the most important concept to grasp the fear of loss concept you give her a little and you take it away ALWAYS TAKE AS LONG AS SHE TAKES TEXTING BACK NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU WANT TO TXT HER.. YOU want her to ask herself what the hell I cant read him does he like me or not...Once she asks this question to herself you are golden... I figured she was asking this to herself when at one point in our text interactions I was qualifying her with the old I was on top of the mountain and when i got to the top I thought of you..And she asked if you dont mind me asking why did you think of me when you got to the top.. The highlight of the whole 2 months texting her jajaj lol here goes my last conversation with her



after two days
Me: lets go
her: where to
me: to experience one of the most satisfying freedoms in life dancing salsa
her: I like how that sounds tomorrow?
me:yea classes start at 830pm
her: Im very interested more details plz where is it at specifically? how much?what do we need to take?
me: details blah blah blah
make or break moment she wanted to see how much of a man i was
her: ok im down!who is going?
trust me I thought a good 10 minutes before sending the text...play it safe and say im going with a friend so she wont feel pressured or be straight up..If you want to get the girl you have to risk it

me: you and me
her: ok sounds good what time? blah blah the rest is irrelevant she asked me what should i wear

SO I know there is chance she might flake but its ok because she said yes to 1 on 1 date and didnt mention her boyfriend.. And im at a high because I really dig this girl.. Any suggestions about tomorrow pulling the trigger a must or if its there do it wht do you guys think my game should be

Sounds like you're in the friend zone to be honest.

Don't get your hopes up about her, I would personally move on and of waste time

But if you must meet her..to find out the ultimate truth, if you escalate, her true intentions will be revealed.

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thanks bro...even if she told her friend wow he is the right guy but at the wrong time plus.. one of her latest text where she initiated was around 7am I know what happened we met each other in another life thats why we are so comfortable in this one..like u said tomorrow I shall know