I have been using this approach many times and wanted your analysis on it:
HB walks by (waits for the bus or comes in line)
Jazzzz: You're not following me...are you? (smile)
HB: hahaha nooo/ NO! :S
Jazzzz: I was just kidding, this thing is just taking forever and I have a busy week*, would love to find a way to pass time
HB: Small talk
Jazzzz: (Smiles).....EC.....Hey can I get your opinion on something?
HB: Sure
Jazzzz: So my buddy is a little awkward when it comes to women, he comes to me for advice (DHV) and I know I'm steering him in the right direction. Its not that he's a wimp, he was just homeschooled and I kinda put him under my wing(Good guy greg). So recently I helped him plan out how he should approach a girl and see if she wanted to get together without him stumbling and making errors.
So in order to cut out the awkwardness, I told him to take her on a lunch date and if anything, take her out for dinner the next time with her favourite flowers. He agreed and went for lunch...but here's the kicker...she brings HIM flowers!! and so he goes to the bathroom and calls me up and I just freeze..I've never had that happen to me before! I now go quiet.... [ALL DHV]
HB: that is strange....blah blah blah
Jazzzz: now why would she do that? I could assume he looked a little shy when he asked her out, was that to break the ice or to use it as a joke for his shyness?
HB: Blah Blah Blah
Jazzzz: (Smiles) Ever have a date this awkward?
HB: Blah Blah Blah
Jazzzz: Oh yeah? When was your last first date?
HB: Blah Blah Blah
*I don't say anything*
If she reinitiates conversation, I'm close to number closing, if not:
Jazzzz: that reminds of me of my most recent date (Preselection). She had to be the worst person I took on a date!
HB: Really? why is that?
Jazzzz: well she was a Professional Cheerleader (DHV) and sounded all fun and outgoing...but when we got together for some drinks, I realized she was a complete air head. She also ________(make HB laugh)______ and I just couldn't get over that. Its really true when they say beauty is common nowadays. You really need something else to stand out of the crowd. (DHV) Don't you agree?
HB: blah blah blah (She may bring up stuff about herself that would make her seem different, an IOI)
Jazzzz: Which leads in to my next question, what do you believe would make meeting you so special? (serious face)
HB: Thinks and lists crap I don't care about (if she lists over 3, I'm golden)
Jazzzz: thinks and waits for HB to reinitiate
HB: Well? (IOI, wants your approval)/Nothing
Jazzzz: Those are some good qualities...I'm certain you didn't pick those up from any of the stores here
(if in a mall)
HB: laughs/ Blah blah blah
Jazzzz: well like I said, I'm a little busy today...but you sound like a lot of fun, YOU SHOULD give me your number!
Gives it/Doesn't give it
Thoughts?
I'm 1/1 so far.
IOIs have been:
- Playing with appearence
- Shifting body towards me
- Touching
- given themselves DHV
- Testing my outlook on women (oh you must date a lot of women?)
- Giggling, feet pointing towards me
- Initiating convo, seeing my input on her lotion/clothes
- vocal towards me, initiating conversation
Thoughts? I use this in Toronto/Waterloo, Canada so fuk right off if you are in the area
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